Tell me, what is the meaning of your new name?

Oh, you mean the misunerstood lady of the castle? Oh, ha, ha, you are brilliant. May my princess and my pee meet your your step kids? Have your seen the play "Wicked?" It brought me to tears, I love the power of women.

Oh wow... Idk what to say... Why are you living there? Why are you even with your DH if he has a 5month old with BM? And to be honest I don't think they are over one bit. How can you ever heal and move forward if you are still living with the ex, ya know? How dare he answer to her every need and how fucking dare he buy her a new phone and give u her nasty hand me downs!!!!!! Are you standing up for yourself at all to this man??? I understand that you are in a situation that you were forced to live with BM but that does not fucking mean you have to spend every second with her. Why is your bf running around with her alone????? It sounds to me like your bf is having his cake and eating it too. If I were you I would pack my shit and leave that weirdo family, your bf, BM, SS to be a happy little family and take off and never look back!!!! Quit baby sitting for them and leave your bf to be with his ex like he obviously wants. If he didn't then what man would be living with his ex, his kids and his new gf, taking off with BM and leaving his current gf to watch the SKids??? All I know is is that you deserve wayyy better than this jerry springer crap and if he can't see what a freak show he's dragged an innocent, loving, kind and generous woman into and get off his ass to change this crazy situation, then he does not deserve you!!

YOU ARE LIVING WITH BM???? WTF?! How in the hell did that happen? I don't understand your situation at all. Your SO runs errands with BM all day and buys her a new phone and gives you her old one? He has a 5 month old???

This seems like the weirdest situation I've ever heard of....what in the hell are you doing?!?!? Is any man worth this? Not to mention, BM agrees with living with her 5 months old's baby daddy's new gf?

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You really are living on a Jerry Springer show. Maybe you should explain how your situation came to be...I don't understand why you'd put yourself through this. Sounds like a nightmare.

Who cares when it ends. The real problem is that it happened at all. How can you be with a "man" that treats you like this?? Has you living with his baby momma, takes off with her all the time, leaves you to watch their kids, buys her a new phone and gives you her old one, has a 5month old with her, let's her talk shit to you and puts you down right with her then takes off with her and leaves you to clean BMs house and watch their kids!!! Wth are ya thinkin?? He is a pos. I'm sorry but Jesus... You deserve so much better!!! No one deserves this crap! If this is how things are now, how can you possibly think things will ever change and get better?? Hunny run!!! RUN!!!! You have only been with him for a few months, get out while you can!! Like I said just because you live with hee does not excuse any of this horrible behavior your boyfriend is doing to you. There is no excuse for him taking off with her, buying her a new phone and giving you her old one, putting you down with BM right in front of you, having you watch their kids and clean her house. This is not ok. Have you and your boyfriend talked about any of his behavior?? What does he say about all of this?? What does your family say about this? Do you have family you could live with?? If you love him too much to leave him, then why wouldn't you two live in a shelter if you can't afford your own place, or you live with your family and he live with his, if he has money for a phone then why not rent a studio apartment for a few hundred a month? Does he or you work?

Ok, you have identified yourself as a lady. A grand one. Let's just sit back and think a moment. Let's just see wha is. You have changed your name upon the site, I do not know know and do not want to know what your former name was. Writers on this site are already reacting to what you have shared. There is a reason why. People are alarmed for you, they care about you. Maybe some recognize you, maybe some don't. I would say, Lady Tremaine, the mirror casts a good reflection. Just take good care of yourself. You are not in a safe situation, you must trust your own judgment. But be careful.

Go home to your family. This is not love, this is not right. You are a live in nanny for your these two ingrates that obviously have no concern for you and whom are still very much so together. I truly feel they are pulling one over on you. I wouldn't wait for taxes. I would leave. You are a full fledged mom and neither boyfriend or BM are a parent what so ever. They are inbred hillbilly hicks and its time you left them to be the losers they are. You deserve way better than this and any one can see that this situation is not right. Why are you doing this to yourself?? What does your family say about this? This man does not give a crap about anythingbor anyone other than making sure he nor BM have to attend to THEIR children. Any mom that would allow another woman in her home to raise her babies is a worthless sack of crap and the same goes for your boyfriend. Idk y you've stayed, maybe out of desperation for any kind of love, a place to live, a family?? Idk but this is not where u r going.to find any of that. Please do yourself a favor and RUN!!!!

Go home to your family. This is not love, this is not right. You are a live in nanny for your these two ingrates that obviously have no concern for you and whom are still very much so together. I truly feel they are pulling one over on you. I wouldn't wait for taxes. I would leave. You are a full fledged mom and neither boyfriend or BM are a parent what so ever. They are inbred hillbilly hicks and its time you left them to be the losers they are. You deserve way better than this and any one can see that this situation is not right. Why are you doing this to yourself?? What does your family say about this? This man does not give a crap about anythingbor anyone other than making sure he nor BM have to attend to THEIR children. Any mom that would allow another woman in her home to raise her babies is a worthless sack of crap and the same goes for your boyfriend. Idk y you've stayed, maybe out of desperation for any kind of love, a place to live, a family?? Idk but this is not where u r going.to find any of that. Please do yourself a favor and RUN!!!!

Go home to your family. This is not love, this is not right. You are a live in nanny for your these two ingrates that obviously have no concern for you and whom are still very much so together. I truly feel they are pulling one over on you. I wouldn't wait for taxes. I would leave. You are a full fledged mom and neither boyfriend or BM are a parent what so ever. They are inbred hillbilly hicks and its time you left them to be the losers they are. You deserve way better than this and any one can see that this situation is not right. Why are you doing this to yourself?? What does your family say about this? This man does not give a crap about anythingbor anyone other than making sure he nor BM have to attend to THEIR children. Any mom that would allow another woman in her home to raise her babies is a worthless sack of crap and the same goes for your boyfriend. Idk y you've stayed, maybe out of desperation for any kind of love, a place to live, a family?? Idk but this is not where u r going.to find any of that. Please do yourself a favor and RUN!!!!

Go home to your family. This is not love, this is not right. You are a live in nanny for your these two ingrates that obviously have no concern for you and whom are still very much so together. I truly feel they are pulling one over on you. I wouldn't wait for taxes. I would leave. You are a full fledged mom and neither boyfriend or BM are a parent what so ever. They are inbred hillbilly hicks and its time you left them to be the losers they are. You deserve way better than this and any one can see that this situation is not right. Why are you doing this to yourself?? What does your family say about this? This man does not give a crap about anythingbor anyone other than making sure he nor BM have to attend to THEIR children. Any mom that would allow another woman in her home to raise her babies is a worthless sack of crap and the same goes for your boyfriend. Idk y you've stayed, maybe out of desperation for any kind of love, a place to live, a family?? Idk but this is not where u r going.to find any of that. Please do yourself a favor and RUN!!!!

Go home to your family. This is not love, this is not right. You are a live in nanny for your these two ingrates that obviously have no concern for you and whom are still very much so together. I truly feel they are pulling one over on you. I wouldn't wait for taxes. I would leave. You are a full fledged mom and neither boyfriend or BM are a parent what so ever. They are inbred hillbilly hicks and its time you left them to be the losers they are. You deserve way better than this and any one can see that this situation is not right. Why are you doing this to yourself?? What does your family say about this? This man does not give a crap about anythingbor anyone other than making sure he nor BM have to attend to THEIR children. Any mom that would allow another woman in her home to raise her babies is a worthless sack of crap and the same goes for your boyfriend. Idk y you've stayed, maybe out of desperation for any kind of love, a place to live, a family?? Idk but this is not where u r going.to find any of that. Please do yourself a favor and RUN!!!!

Go home to your family. This is not love, this is not right. You are a live in nanny for your these two ingrates that obviously have no concern for you and whom are still very much so together. I truly feel they are pulling one over on you. I wouldn't wait for taxes. I would leave. You are a full fledged mom and neither boyfriend or BM are a parent what so ever. They are inbred hillbilly hicks and its time you left them to be the losers they are. You deserve way better than this and any one can see that this situation is not right. Why are you doing this to yourself?? What does your family say about this? This man does not give a crap about anythingbor anyone other than making sure he nor BM have to attend to THEIR children. Any mom that would allow another woman in her home to raise her babies is a worthless sack of crap and the same goes for your boyfriend. Idk y you've stayed, maybe out of desperation for any kind of love, a place to live, a family?? Idk but this is not where u r going.to find any of that. Please do yourself a favor and RUN!!!!

Go home to your family. This is not love, this is not right. You are a live in nanny for your these two ingrates that obviously have no concern for you and whom are still very much so together. I truly feel they are pulling one over on you. I wouldn't wait for taxes. I would leave. You are a full fledged mom and neither boyfriend or BM are a parent what so ever. They are inbred hillbilly hicks and its time you left them to be the losers they are. You deserve way better than this and any one can see that this situation is not right. Why are you doing this to yourself?? What does your family say about this? This man does not give a crap about anythingbor anyone other than making sure he nor BM have to attend to THEIR children. Any mom that would allow another woman in her home to raise her babies is a worthless sack of crap and the same goes for your boyfriend. Idk y you've stayed, maybe out of desperation for any kind of love, a place to live, a family?? Idk but this is not where u r going.to find any of that. Please do yourself a favor and RUN!!!!

Go home to your family. This is not love, this is not right. You are a live in nanny for your these two ingrates that obviously have no concern for you and whom are still very much so together. I truly feel they are pulling one over on you. I wouldn't wait for taxes. I would leave. You are a full fledged mom and neither boyfriend or BM are a parent what so ever. They are inbred hillbilly hicks and its time you left them to be the losers they are. You deserve way better than this and any one can see that this situation is not right. Why are you doing this to yourself?? What does your family say about this? This man does not give a crap about anythingbor anyone other than making sure he nor BM have to attend to THEIR children. Any mom that would allow another woman in her home to raise her babies is a worthless sack of crap and the same goes for your boyfriend. Idk y you've stayed, maybe out of desperation for any kind of love, a place to live, a family?? Idk but this is not where u r going.to find any of that. Please do yourself a favor and RUN!!!!

I'm sorry idk why it did that and idk how to delete them...

SO is nice to BM because THEY ARE A COUPLE.

He made you stop working so that THEY would have free child care.

Since you live there rent free, you have to do house work to earn your keep.

Call your family and go home now.

I have to say if BM has a VPO on your SO and he's living there and around her they are both in violation of the order and can BOTH go to jail, doesn't matter what her excuse is for taking it out. It exists and that's all the police and a judge care about. I had a friend in a similar situation minus a PO minus kids, when she realized she'd been duped by her SO and his wife, her choice was to stay and be the second wife because she loved him. She is the maid, the slave,the cook, and she works to pay their bills, and she hates her life, she's had herself committed twice but still stays. We teach people how to treat us, you've taught them you will accept this, it will not end taxes will come and BM will throw something at your SO SHE needs and the money will be gone and you will be right there nothing changed. Run sweetie, run and don't look back this isn't love toward you love isn't about how much a person can hurt you, devalue you, and make you 2nd, 3rd or last priority, take the hillybilly's phone and shatter it when you leave.

Does BD pay CS?

He's playing you. He's still in a relationship with BM. The only way things will change for the better is if you leave SO and go home to your family. Please heed the advice of the other posters.

If she's getting welfare and the state knows about BD, they will make him pay CS.

If the state isn't on his ass, that means he and BM working together to scam the state.

I agree. This story as I continue to read, is so out there that it almost cannot be real.
Sadly, I'm judging someone else... but, OP is doing this to herself.
If it is real, she's staying because there's either something we are missing, or, she refuses to leave.

Not her kids, only been together a few MONTHS? Really?? Who would stay???

To OP, how did you meet him? If he's still living with the " hillbilly", does this mean he always was and you were the " other woman"?...hmmm? If that baby is only 5 months old I'm doing the math in my head.. seems he didn't really have time to be out of that relationship..... soooooooo... give us some more plot..?
Were you the other woman? If you were, eat your Karma and enjoy it. You deserve nothing but what you're getting.
I feel so bad for those poor babies.. all of you should be ashamed for the confusion you're causing. No one really cares about the kids, just who's doing who.

Disgusting.

I'm sorry. But you did this to yourself.

Those kids should be taken away from all of you.

No response and nothing else to say....interesting.

Wtf why won't she answer our damn questions!!! Helloooo!!!

If I were you I'd get the hell out of dodge and go back to your place. I remember you saying before you had your own apartment correct?

Sigh, I remember this story from before, isnt this the one with the MUCH older SO, and she is like 22 or something? Everyone, we tried to give her advice last time, dont even bother, she will never leave.