Ok follow me on this one - last night I ended up at the same pub as BM's sisters ex. Follow?? I know it's convoluted. BUT. He told me what I've been feeling for years. - that BM's family is nuttier than squirrel shit and he saw the same drama and BS that I have been seeing since day one.

Is it funny that I get validation from someone other than DH? Yes. DH is a douchebag who has pinned all blended family drama on me, and made me feel crazy for bringing up concerns, citing my "insecurity and baggage" as the cause.

The X told me that he wasn't supposed to talk to me and was instructed by BMs sister to be cold to me. What the fuck?! It's team With-LD against team Hate-LD. I'm caught in a twisted adult bullying scheme.

Anyway. My point is: I FINALLY heard from someone what what I feel and what I see is an acceptable perspective!!! And DH can go suck a huuuuge bag of dicks for telling me that I'm out of line for 3.5 Years. Mark my words - I'm making some changes that are going to make me happy. And taking his shit and BMs drama is the first thing I'm getting rid of in my life!!