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Feeling like I'm the only one with his kids my kids and our kids

kristyann0225's picture

So I've been sitting here for hours looking for a blog on his yours and mine I have 7 children 3 from a previous marriage 2 from current marriage and 2ss....6 out of 7 live with us pretty much full time

I'm so stressed out lately with the whole my kids are so excited for their "dadtime"and his sons are always about there "momtime" It's like all the effort I put into their lives doesn't mean anything my dh and I are there for all of their activites parent teacher conferences etc. my kids dad is a weekend dad and can't be bothered to come to activites during the week...my ss7 who lives with us mom on the other hand has to show up for everything it's enough to make me not want to sign up "and PAY ALL" of his sports because I have to see her and deal with her snide comments and stares. I am just looking for a place to "share and I'm hoping I have found somewhere with people who can relate being a mom and a stepmom and dealing with 2 ex-wifes is alot

Is there anyone out there?

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Bio father's picture

I know you may not want to hear this but she has the right to be there, on the other hand, you should stop paying because she is getting a free ride. Have you ever asked her to pay for some things since she always wants to include herself? Btw, thats alotta kids. Lol