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Opinions on calling for SD's birthday

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A little back story. After fighting for years for more time with his daughter my DH finally gave up after SD spent a full year crying all day everyday she was at our house. The change happened from one visit to the next after her mom`s attempt to have her taken away from us failed. We have no idea what was said to her when she was with her mom, but she went from being happy and not wanting to leave our house, to crying all the time when she was with us and saying she didn`t love us anymore and she only wanted to be with her mom.

Am I wrong?

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This is my first time back here in months but I need some feedback.

DH and I just had our second daughter. She was born a month premature and had to stay in the hospital for an extra 12 days because she got sick (the doctor said it was from SD visiting her).

Everytime SD comes over for a visit she gets DD 19months sick. I would say that it is just coincidence but DD is only ever sick right after SD visits, she never gets sick unless SD has just been here.

B*tch!

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Stupid BM knows damn well that MIL decided not to have anything to do with us or our daughter, so what does she do? She calls our house and asks "is your mom there?" DH says "no..." She giggles and says "oh sorry, wrong number" then hangs up.
Stupid B*TCH! Thanks for rubbing it in that MIL chose to see only your daughter rather than her son and BOTH of her grandaughters.

No wonder SD is overweight/ it made me laugh.

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Last night my dad and sister came over to have dinner with us before SD (3.5 years) had to go home. I had made a yummy stirfry loaded with veggies. SD dropped a pea on the table and I started to laugh and told her what my parents used to say if my sister or I ever dropped a pea during meal time. They would laugh and say "You 'peed' on the table" (I had awesomely weird parents, lol) So the next time she dropped a pea she looked at me and said "look mom" I said "haha SD 'peed' on the table" and she started giggling.

Nice MIL, real nice

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Quick back story, MIL decided that her son and I (me especially) are horrible parents because SD (3.5 years) has to eat vegetables before she can have dessert. She and BM are now buddies and not only has she not talked to us or seen BD (16 months) in 6 months, she also called CAS and wrote up a list of lies in order to try to have SD taken away from us. CAS came to our home when we had SD and then came back a few weeks later after visiting BM and told us to keep doing exactly what we are doing and that BM was the one who they needed to work with.

You pissed all over my house because you "didn't feel like it" ????

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SD has been fully potty trained (day and night) for over a year now. Today during nap/quiet time I heard her crying up in her room. I opened the door and there was piss all over the floor. She was standing against the wall on one side of the room and there was a line of pee almost all the way to the other side. DH came upstairs and cleaned it up (there was no way I was about to clean up his kids piss) and I asked her why she didn't go to the bathroom. She started pretend crying/hyperventilating and said she needed to calm down first.

Kinda O/T (but not really) My naive little sister.

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My sister is 22 and has no children of her own. She just got out of a relationship and has decided that she wants to be with this new guy she just recently met. That's fine and dandy she is an adult she can do whatever she wants. Here's the thing... after seeing everything I have been through with SD she still wants to be with this guy, who happens to be 34 and has 3 children. Not only does he have 3 kids he has had a vasectomy and my sister has wanted children her whole life.

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