I was brushing SD's hair after her bath tonight and she started talking about nana (DH's mother who no longer talks to us). She said "nana says she loves me all the time and she says that I am her angel. She bought me a necklace with an angel on it because I am her angel"

We had a great night with DD 15months at the Santa Clause parade. DH and I are walking home afterward and have to go past MIL & FIL's house. They haven't spoken to us in almost 5 months and haven't seen DD in that amount of time either (their choice) but we hear yelling from the front porch "Hi DH". He didn't respond and just kept walking. Then we hear MIL laughing. So glad that you think it is funny that you don't have a relationship with DH or your grandaughter.
Well, I was having a good night.

So, DH just went to a meeting this afternoon with his ex girlfriend and the lawyers to finally figure out the new visitation agreement.

Before the meeting we had SD every Tuesday @ 3:30pm - Wednesday @ 7pm and every other weekend, each holiday was split up (always in BM's favour) and DH and BM both got 2 weeks of summer vacation (BM would split up her weeks in order to take SD away from us for twice the amount of time).

...telling him what he needs to do for HIS daughter. I am the one who has always documented important things for the custody battle. I have always had to ask him if anything improtant was said at the pick ups/ drop off's (he occasionally says "yes but I forget"). I have always had to ask him to write down important things or do it myself or else it dosen't get done. I have always been the one stressed out trying to get things organised for court and lawyer meetings. I told him I am done, HE has to take responsibility for HIS mistake.