Vent 3 is too much!
3 was NOT the deal!!!
The agreement was supposed to be only two skid weekends in a row..now this weekend was supposed to be my weekend and now of course it isnt! I NEVER AGREED TO RUINING THREE WEEKENDS IN A ROW! It's not technically his summer break until his mom takes him on vacation first why would I say ok to having him any earlier than I agreed to
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You need to get your DH to
You need to get your DH to start actually communicating with you about this. My DH knows for a fact he'd have been dead if he ever agreed to any sort of change in schedule without consulting me first. I mean I had told him plenty of times the girls shouldn't ever be allowed back with the psycho, and when she decided to ditch, he still consulted with me first. lol
Stick the CO and forget
Stick the CO and forget compromises.
He does not care what you
He does not care what you think or feel about it. Also, he does not think you will "do anything about it" based on you rolling over previously. Things in your life will not change until you make changes.
Tell him that he will need to
Tell him that he will need to figure out how to manage his kid and your kids together, because the plan was that you would have a bit of a break, so he can handle it all on his own, you're not accomodating ss, he's not more special than you or your kids.
Update
Well, I finally had it and said no skid can' come this weekend you need to just do what the courts told you to do and nothing more I don' give a crap that your ex wife had a Bachelorette party to go to she needs to watch her son on her weekends iam not a baby sitter! Plus I can' just drop the plans I made with my mom at a whim just so it' convenient for you (I didn' really have plans but I didn't want to be here this weekend ) so he stands there all scratching his head like but I already told her we'd take him I love having extra time with him so I said well tell her plans changed and we can't do it you say you love having extra time with him so much but you completely ignore the kid while he' here unless he asks you something directly...again silence so to quote roz from monsters Inc "your stunned silence is verrry reassuring"
NO step kid this weekend haha I win!