One of my sister in laws came by today with ss. We have just "learned" that he does in fact have odd adhd and is on the spectrum of autism._(I have suspected for years now and vm finally had no choicr but to agree to get him evalueated due to being kicked out of yet an other school) 

Anyway instead of attempting to help ss (she is an educated for preschool and kindergarten) she keeps suggesting my son (the eldest of my twins) has sensory issues and he is "probably high functioning autistic) despite me sayong over and over I have had all of my children evaluated and all of them are "normal" but she kept pushing and pushing...i just wanted to scream because she acts like she knows everything and now apparently she knows everything about autism..lmfao she needs to just focus on the children she teaches and the child she needs to help (my stepson) and just let mine be. Am I in the wrong for being deeply offended that she is almost looking for "something bad" in my children?