During the weeks that we do have the kids.. im always the one to make sure they take there bath and read them a story before they go to bed. Sometimes my partner does this, but most of the time hes too busy.. so i think doing things like this makes up for the fact that i can hardly stand them... Ive learned so much patience... and still have a long way to go.. i wish i loved them as much as he does... and hes such an amazing person.. just sucks right now because he lost alot of money, land, and the house, through the divorce that he has to work alot so we can build our own place... instead of renting...