Need advice
I have been with this man for 2 years. When I met him he was living with his daughter for only 1 year. He bought her a car for her 16th bday. She moved back with her mother after dropping out of high school. He took the car away. At 18 she went back to school and graduated. GREAT! He bought her another car. She told him that she didn't need him anymore so we picked up the car sent her no more money. (By this time she was living with some boy) Now 2 months later she is back with us after a year and a half. She thinks she can come back in and take over. Husband says be patient. I say follow my rules it's my house. I will help her to get a job, save money to get a car. I'm not sure her dad should pay for anymore school being that she has already quit cosmetology school half way through. She has lied about alot of things to me and I don't feel I can trust her. Husbands says give her a clean slate. I just can't What should I do?
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Make a contract of
Make a contract of expectations and boundaries have her be accountable to the home. Make sure you include consequences for bad decisions something that is natural, that doesn't punish both you and the BD. I would talk to the BD and have him be a part of it and present it to the BD.
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