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What I was trying to say was....

is he trying to compete with me? It's what it feels like. We are having ss11 here for the week which is the most time he has ever spent here while I've been dating my boyfriend of 1year. I'm not feeling so great today (cramps, bloating, you get the picture) and so I told my bf that I'm just gonna lay down for the rest of the day. He said okay no problem like the supportive bf he is. He's come to check up on me to see if I need anything and EVERY time he does so which only for 60 seconds at the most, ss11 is banging on the locked door. He's already told him that I don't feel good, and I just can't even get to have 2 minutes with my boyfriend while SS is here. Idk if I'm just PMSing or what but beyond irritated. Last night bf got up around 1am or so to go get us a snack and the little sh*t was right outside of our door. Claims he just got up to go pee and heard his dad get up so he wanted to scare him but I think he was trying to listen through the door. So now I can't even have sex with my bf anymore while he's here bc I don't want him hearing. My bf and I are very similar in the fact that neither of us are yelling kinds of people and everytime ss doesn't get what he wants he just yells and bf eventually give him what he wants I brought this up to my bf yesterday that this really bothers me when he does that so no yelling today thank god but we'll see how long that lasts. Ugh this child just gets on my ever living nerves. Rant over. Thanks for listening.

Any tips from introverted people would be greatly appreciated

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Tell bf you are uncomfortable

Tell bf you are uncomfortable having sex with the lil guy outsidethe door all the time. He'll put a stop to it. Ss13 barges in anytime he pleases so i stopped having sex with dh. The children are no longer allowed to even knock unless its emergency and they are no longer allowed to cross the threshold of my bedroom. Please set boundaries for yourself and get bf on board quickly.

I agree with Chmmy. Tell BF

I agree with Chmmy. Tell BF sex isn't going to happen while SS is there. You aren't comfortable with the peeping Tom and since he isn't getting it under control, you won't be doing anything that makes you uncomfortable.

So, the kid knows that by

So, the kid knows that by yelling, he gets what he wants.

Your BF needs to figure this out. How to deal with the kid's yelling, give him consequences for it, and NOT give in to him because of it.

I get it, kids having tantrums or yelling is very annoying, but giving them what they want is not the way to handle it, it just reinforces the behavior.

Creeping outside of your door is, well, creepy.

The brat is probably doing

The brat is probably doing the crap on purpose because he sees you as a threat and wants to make it uncomfortable for you so you will leave. I would tell the kid to take a flying leap if it was me if your BF doesn't. Once again these kids think they can do whatever they want and rule the roost.

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