Yesterday BM called DH to see if DCBS approved her sister to supervise her with kids if they could have the kids on Sunday for a few hours to do Christmas at BM's dad's house. DH tired to explain that we already had plans for the whole weekend and that he wouldn't change his plans with only a 5 day notice from her. That's when the water works started and the oh poor me act took place. I'm so very proud of my DH he gave her what for.

He informed her that if she was the mother she was supposed to be they wouldn't be in the position they are in now. She said the only reason she doesn't have the kids is because she drank too much, guess she forgot about her suicide attempt while the kids were with her and DCBS taking them from her. She tired to pull the I was doing it all by myself card, so then DH reminder her how many guys she has had in and out of the kids lives and living with them, how many times they had to move and switch schools in a 2 1/2 year period because of her mistakes. DH told her that now since they have been living with us all 3 skids have prefect attendance at school and YSS7 is now finally reading, she had nothing to say to that. DH finally ended that phone call with the fact that this is all her fault and she won't get the kids this weekend and we will not change our plans to fit her crazy screwed up life.

She then tired to call back 3 to 4 more times and DH finally answered on the 4th or 5th time. She started trying to bring up DH's childhood and what he dealt with having divorced parents and a mom that didn't always make the best choices when it came to men, but when that didn't hurt him enough to make him give in, she had the nerve to say that he's mom would open her legs to any man (that's the pot calling the kettle black). Once that was said he told her if you call my phone one more time today I will contact the police and charge you with harassment. She didn't call back not even to try and talk to the kids.

When will these crazy bitches learn, they are the ones that fucked up and lost their kids. When will they learn that they must actually change and make efforts to be a stable good member of society. You must actually follow the CO, get a job, pay your CS & also come to terms that you agreed to sign the new CO that says you have supervised visitation at a parenting time center.

Let's all get together and buy an island far, far away and put all the BM's on it