Where to start?!?!? Let's start with the weekend of February 21st. DH and I had a little get away planned, the skids staying at his mom's. DH & I had only been at the resort for a couple of hours and DH gets a call from his mom stating BM called and said she was going to drive 2 1/2 hrs to her house to see the kids. MIL told her that DH would have to approve of that, BM said no DH doesn't have to know. MIL told her the kids will tell him and I am not going to lie to my son.

DH had to call BM and tell her she wasn't aloud, it was against court order and that he wasn't putting his mom in the middle. BM keep on and on, then wanted to talk to me. I went off on her and told her if she showed up the cops would be called. She finally left it alone.

Since then nothing completely crazy has taken place until this weekend. Saturday she called to talk to the kids and while talking to OSS she asked him who his mommy was (weird), he told her that she and I were his mommies. Then she went on to tell him that Daddy was keeping her from seeing them, OSS told her that she was wrong. DH finally hung up the phone on her when she wouldn't stop with blaming him to the kids.

She then called back to and started talking to DH. Cried, brought up their marriage and just ran her mouth about anything and everything. That finally ended.

Sunday I took YSS to the doctor for possible strep and she called while my mom was there watching the other kids. So when she called about later I assumed to was find out why YSS went to the doctor. I got on the phone and told her. But that wasn't the real reason why she wanted to talk to me. She left her BF because she beat her the night before and she couldn't stop drinking when she was with him, her bond says she's not allowed to drink or do drugs. Her mom put her up in a hotel and just needed someone to talk to and wanted to let us know what was going on. So I listened and talked for about 30 minutes (I know I shouldn't have).

Monday she texted DH saying please tell the kids I'm sorry and that I love them. Then a little later she called DH and left a voicemail crying and begging him to have me call her (I never did). She didn't call the kids last night.

Today I got that sick feeling in my belly that something happened. Dumbass BM is in jail again for violation of bond. They found her in a car (she doesn't own one and has no license) with open containers. So now she will be sitting in jail until April 21 for her criminal trial and then I am sure they are going to give her more time at the point.

I just don't get it :jawdrop: