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Of Course we got the Covid line

I know many of you are saying to not do custody swaps right now- however that is not an option in the eyes of DH and I for SS or my bios.

We are trying to schedule the summer visit starting June 10th - the day the stay at home order lifts for our state and more than 30 days after the order for SS's state. Plane tickets are insanely cheap right now. We want to go ahead and purchase them.

After no response for 5 days BM finally replies with no because of Covid. DH responded with:

BM,

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Covid Report Card

I saw this and found it interesting.

https://www.unacast.com/covid19/social-distancing-scoreboard?fbclid=IwAR...

You can search your county and see how your rating is.

OT- Need Help!

DH's and my anniversary is coming up, it's Cotton this year. I have been looking for months but FINALY found something.

Cuff links and a tie clip that have cotton in the center. You personalize them. I get 15 words for each.

DH is a pretty simple man, I was thinking of the coordinates where we were both born for the cuffs and EST. 5-21-2018 for the clip but now I am second guessing myself.

BM is at it again

DH is supposed to have weekly facetime calls with SS. They were first suggested at 8:30pm one day a week, he suggested a day. Suggestion from the GAL - never an order. At first that was fine, 9:30 pm our time was later than we liked because we are up at 5:30am but not out of the question. Now DH is up at 4 am. Staying up until 10pm to be able to have a talk and then do his journal about it is ridiculous. He has a very high risk job in the navy. Peoples lives depend on him being able to think clearly. 9/10 times SS doesn't answer anyway so he is staying up for NOTHING.

On a happy note!

My kids SM is preggo and I have been looking for a gift for her that would be special. She is having another boy and was pretty bummed (she has 2 boys already plus BS14, BD12 is the only girl). Anyway, I found this today and ordered it. My kids are out visiting with them in CA right now and she will get it before they leave. I am just tickled over this set!! I told BD to snag it off the porch and tell her dad to pick up a gift bag for it

I spoke too soon...

While SS was here I had a little chat with him about the fact that he has blocked me from his phone. He mentioned that he needed some new clothes. I told him that I would happily buy him clothes but he needed to unblock me. It was disrespectful and I refuse to do and buy things for people that are basically saying F-you to me. He said I get it, I'm sorry and unblocked me on the spot. -- Great!

SS was told that he had 0 choice in visiting his father until he was 18. That if he refused it would be his fault that his mother went to jail, so make it easy on her and get on the plane.

I still am in shock.