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BM and SD create Havoc and no repecussions...

Jsmom's picture

I am so exhausted after this week. I did everything I could do regarding the little brat and the bus. Now we wait for her to pull her next stunt. In the meantime, Monday morning they are separated on the bus. She is at the front and he is somewhere in the back. Or so I am told. Funny thing is the VP called and said that there is a camera and microphone by the front of the bus and if BS is harrassing her they will catch it. Noted some sarcasm when she said it.

Now this is going to piss of this girl. Who knows what games she is going to play next?

I want so badly to go off on BM. I haven't. I did yell the "B" word at her car last night as we passed each other in the school parking lot. Of course she didn't hear me or see me. But, it did feel good.

I am so frustrated that they create all this mess. I lost a full day and more dealing with this. It is creating unbelievable tension between me and DH. He keeps saying the wrong thing. I removed several pictures in the house. He asked me not to take them all down. I removed 4 of the ones that bugged me. I can not even look at the pictures anymore. I slid them under our bed. Never to be seen again. He was at least smart enough not to say another word about that. But, there are more in this house and they are going to start disappearing as well. Yes it sounds petty, but I don't care. He sent me an email yesterday that I have to let all of this go. We just have to wait and deal with whatever happens next. I am trying, but it has sent me into a tailspin of absolute hate. That is not me. I am turning into this horrible angry person.

Why is it we keep doing everything right and BM does whatever the hell she wants and there is no repecussions? DH's lawyers say we can not get before a judge until at least Feb. Several judges here were caught in a scandal and left the bench so the court is all screwed up.

I am tired of this mess. It has taken every ounce of restraint that I have not to slash her tires or just go off on her. But, given the way everything works, I am sure it would bite me in the ass.

There is a small part of me that wants DH to upset BM's apple cart and go get SD. We have not formally given up custody. Bring her here on Monday and then ground her for the week. She is not punished at mom's so why not? But, the other part of me never wants to see this evil thing again.

DH and I are supposed to go out tonight with another couple, the last thing I feel like is pretending everything is great....

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SillyGilly's picture

"Why is it we keep doing everything right and BM does whatever the hell she wants and there is no repecussions?"
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Girl I feel your pain!! I don't know why. I keep holding out hope that someday it will bite BM in the ass? That's what I have to hold on to our I might go crazy myself. I think you totally need/deserve a night out. If this other couple is a close friend then I don't think you need to pretend like anything is wrong - let your friends be there for you. If they aren't thats ok too - I have found sometimes when I have to pretend I feel better I actually start to feel better, even if it is just temporary. Let us know how it goes on Monday!