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Thanks for the advice!!

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So I took some of the advice left on my last blog and put my foot down.  I told my SO that SD is HIS daughter, not mine. I never asked to give up my life/time/sanity for a kid, HE did. I also told him HE chose to marry his ex and have a child with her, not ME!  So I wrote out the schedule for the next 2 months and highlighted the days HE needs to figure something out.  Our pick up/drop of time is 4pm.

What did I get myself into...

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My SO and I met a little over a year ago on a dating app.  From the beginning we both had the same intentions: friends with benefits.  I was traveling out of state for work and he had just split with his ex-wife so neither of us were looking for anything serious.  We just talked for 3 weeks and then we finally got to meet when I came home for a weekend.  Our connection from the beginning was like none I'd ever experienced, and not long after our first date, our 'friends with benefits' idea went flying out the window.  He is definitely what I would call my soulmate, which I thought was just

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