Should i stay or should i go?
So today was THE day..."I want to live with my Mom!", said my 15 year old stepson. Do we let him go? His ego is fed on a daily basis with his mother. He can do no wrong. Honestly...he is 15. He cares about #1. He is a jerk. And i believe with my whole heart that he wants to live with her simply because of the fact that he can get away with a heck of a lot more crap in her world. He's not a BAD kid by any means. But he is his mothers child. Nuff said. Let him go or make him stay?
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I am leaning that way too. He
I am leaning that way too. He needs to see that the grass is NOT greener. Its difficult because the woman has few to zero morals.
What does his dad think about
What does his dad think about it?
It's not your OR your
It's not your OR your husband's decision to make. It's up to a judge. Your SS may be 15 but, contrary to popular belief, kids don't "get to decide where they live" at some magic age. It's ALWAYS up to the courts. Your DH can agree to let him go but it'll be a judge saying yes or no.
One thing I can suggest...if your DH says "yes" and the judge says "yes" make it damn clear to your SS that there's "no backsies". He doesn't get to go back and forth. He moves in with BM, he stays with BM. He'll get visitation with dad, no more moving back in,
meh. let him go. either
meh. let him go. either he'll be happy and out of your hair, or he'll learn a lesson.