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iamlosingit's picture

Despite me feeling nauseous aaaalll week long (7.5 days of these crappy antibiotics to go) DH thought it would be a great idea to go visit some friends of ours that live over an hour away for the weekend.  We have SS this weekend and our friends have her 3 kids this weekend so they want to have a play date. Since they live so far away we usually stay in the guest room and make a weekend out of it. 

I don't want to go.  Normally I would.

Just for my half-hour commute home I feel like I'm going to throw up....so NO DH I will not be stuck in a vehicle for over an hour to visit these friends.  Also said friends have three dogs and we would have to bring my pup with.  Due to my allergies this requires me to take an extra dose of allergy medication to keep from suffocating myself in my sleep.  Due to the side-effects of these antibiotics I don't really want to add extra pills to the mix.  Plus while the kids play, the adults usually just stand around talking and enjoying some adult beverages while listening to music.  I can't drink on these pills.  Not saying I have to drink to have fun, but listening to four screaming kids all weekend and NOT being able to drink doesn't sound like a good time.

I told DH to go without me and I will happily stay home with my pup binge-watching Netflix with my pup.

DH all of a sudden feels bad that I don't want to go....he didn't notice my complaints of nausea this week due to his enmeshment with the hospital friend.  Funny how he's been spending all this time visiting said alcoholic in the hospital (5 hours last weekend) yet as soon as it's a visitation weekend he is all about bringing SS for a play date and there is no mention of a visit this weekend.  WTF. 

Not sure what he is going to decide.  Hoping he goes and I get to sleep in and have a skid-free/Disney dad free weekend.

 

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ndc's picture

No surprise that he didn't notice your complaint of nausea all week.  You're not his priority and sadly, probably never will be. Your nausea only appears to be relevant when it affects his plans with the skid.  I hope he and the skid go for their play date without you and leave you and your pup to a weekend of peace.

I hope you're feeling better.  (((HUGS)))

ESMOD's picture

I would be so hoping he goes and takes SS.. you sound like you NEED a break.  I would tell him to not feel bad.. that you just are under the weather.. but you don't want to let that ruin SS's visit..

Aniki-Moderator's picture

I hope he takes SS away for the weekend and you get some much-needed rest, sweetie. You need/deserve it. {{{HUGS}}}

Do what FB says and back out at the last minute. Even so far as them heading for the car and you run to the bathroom to be sick and back out. Hope you're feeling better soon.

DPW's picture

Just tell him you're not going. You're not feeling well. If he doesn't understand that, he's a d*ck. 

Get some good rest this weekend. You need it.