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huntersmommysricklin's picture

i am so new to being a sm. i didnt even meet my ss's till a week ago. and since then there bm has been pushing them on me like i am their bm. i have a 5 yo son of my own and would never do that. both of the boys have autism and the oldest is just 3. im so unsure what is ok any advise

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bscs1214's picture

Amen on that one I SOOOO agree... I wanted to be the awesome SM you know not the one everyone talks about. I jumped in and boy was I used and abused. It was as if SD was mine.. Finally after a few yrs of taking on everything I backed off. And now I have an ungrateful SD that thinks all of us are uneducated and she is way better then us.. But hey I'll call ya when I need something from ya.. Girl don't fall into this hole leave it their parents to help them Daddy needs to step it up and man up not let her push the kids off on you. Good luck

neversecondplace's picture

Well hugs to you. It is gonna be rough ahead just try and hang in there. I agree with Druzilla and bscs1214 as well. Dirol