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Looking Like A Glorious Implosion

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Submitted by HS752 on Thu, 06/27/2024 - 1:41pm

I want off this effing roller coaster...

After a nerve wrecking meeting my SO had with the evaluator on Thursday last week, we learned on Friday that BM isn't cooperating with the custody study at all.  She isn't returning messages, phone calls, emails, and hasn't turned in her paperwork.  She also failed to show up for two of her interviews.  She requested this damn study BTW. The evaluator sent a memo to the judge, who said it will continue "do your best with what you can" was the quote.

Custody Study

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Submitted by HS752 on Wed, 06/19/2024 - 9:20am

It has been a wild first half of the year.  Too much to get in one cohesive post.  SO was back in court in early May - filed a new motion for contempt which sent the BM off.  In the six weeks or so between the court dates, she scheduled, canceled and rescheduled all kinds of appointments for SD without telling my SO (who was obtaining the information himself, showing up for the appointments expecting her to be there only to find out BM canceled the appointments w/o notifying him - he lives an hour away), she took took SD off her antidepressant w/o consulting SO, and was late getting the kid

Another Day, Another Manipulation

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Submitted by HS752 on Thu, 11/30/2023 - 11:54am

We were all ready for our day in court on the DeNovo hearing on November 6th and the review hearing on the 15th.  BM knows she's in deep sh*t with the GAL for the medication lapse.  But this scum of a human being was ready with her move to get some time and distance from her latest misstep...

She had her lawyer file for an adjournment, the day before, citing that BM recently suffered a seizure and was not well enough to participate in court.  No other details.  The judge granted the adjournment....so now we wait until January 29th for the next court date.

BM let medication lapse....and blames....dad (of course)

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Submitted by HS752 on Tue, 10/31/2023 - 9:22am

Last Thursday SD(12) disclosed to her dad (my SO) that her antidepressant prescription ran out over a week ago so she hasn't been taking it.  BM has primary placement (hopefully for not too much longer). To keep SD out of the conflict, SO waited until SD was with him this past weekend to see for himself if the antidepressant was sent.  It wasn't.  He sent an OFW asking about the medication.

Just need to RAGE

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Submitted by HS752 on Tue, 10/24/2023 - 10:05am

None of this is right...I feel like I am on an island.  Screaming silently, hoping and praying someone is seeing what I am seeing. 

The lies. The drama.  The misquoting and twisting of court orders. This waste of good oxygen. The absolute manipulation and emotional/phycological abuse of SD (12). My SO trying to fight BM in court, but getting tired and burnt out.  The crazy is never ending.  The progress is so slow.

We do not respond to her word vomit on OFW.  We go though his attorney or the GAL (who thankfully seems to be siding with my SO) for communication.

Latest Update - Latest Headache

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Submitted by HS752 on Thu, 08/24/2023 - 3:14pm

Had court last week.  BM has been put on notice - she needs to communicate or she will be held in contempt.  GAL got on record what BM is claiming is not true.  BM's attorney made the mistake of calling DH narcissistic and claimed DH is manipulating SD - the commissioner was having none of it.  DH and his attorney kept it all child focused.  GAL had positives things to say about DH, but not willing to make the call to give DH full custody/placement (yet).  BM ordered to contact DH if she is unable to look after DH for longer than 24 hours (SD has spent the last three weeks at grandparents -

Put the Therapist on Blast or Straight to the Licensing Board?

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Submitted by HS752 on Wed, 08/09/2023 - 1:35am

I can't make this sh*t up. Therapist drama continues.

SO decided to confront his D's therapist on 7/24 about a three hour session she had with his D, using his insurance billing as the reason for reaching out and not because of what D told him. She was pretty vague, saying D was having some anger issues that she needed help working through (though we both suspect a major crisis based on what D said about the visit). Therapist also says she's reducing sessions to once a week...this was going to be a new approach she said.

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