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Submitted by herewegoagain on Sat, 03/26/2011 - 12:23am

1. After working for 19yrs, my 401k is all gone
2. My stocks & savings aré all gone
3. My perfect crédit of 25yrs was messed up by your ex & you
4. Your daughter is 16 and 4yrs away from graduating
5. After being an independent woman w/no debt for 25yrs, now I owe everyone
6. After being independent, I now have no car thus spend 72-96 hrs straight w/out leaving my apt complex & seeing a road!
7. Although most months I can't afford moré than ice cream once a week, because we have no money
8. I had great teeth except one crown because I broke a tooth & now it's been 15mos since the crown broke and I can't afford to go to the dentist
9. Where you moved me & because of your lack of concern when I complained about keeping germs out of the house i ended up hospitalized w/MRSA and still have constant pain on my leg & a horrible scar

and you wonder why I am losinf it? why I can't be in a happy mood?

Oh, and my family lives in the states & I have nobody to ever help me when I'm sick? We can't afford the private schools and the public schools are a nightmare so I have to homeschool & I be w/my son 24/7? Many days w/out talking or seeing another adult except you?

Wow, what a horrible & mean person I am.

Oh, and I have one bathroom that works...which is smaller than any closet I have ever had...and no BATHTUB to relax in EVER!!!
Oh, and no central air, so that means as I clean and sit all day in the apt...I sweat like a pig...(sorry, there are days that I beg to go eat some ice cream just to get in the air conditioning in the car after sweating all day long just sitting...)

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Submitted by Justwantsomepeace on Sat, 03/26/2011 - 12:40am

Don't know how to respond to this other than to than say I'm sorry.

No air conditioning would do it for me...but we do own an HVAC company Smile

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Sat, 03/26/2011 - 12:49am

PS - two "reasons" we left the states that he gave 1) with all the layoffs if he lost his job, he wouldn't be able to pay CS and could end up in jail or further in debt 2) he hated being in the office all day long when he was used to being on the street all day (he's in sales) and having nice lunches with his co-workers, etc.

nice, huh? and he can't figure out why I am so miserable? really?

Of course, today he gave me the BS line (I do know it's true), that a few guys here have asked him why he no longer plays tennis, they invited him to play again, to go bike riding with them, etc...awwww...isn't that nice? Should I feel sorry for you? While I sit home, after you get home from work, after being stuck in a tiny apt all day, so that you can now feel good and go play tennis? While I stay home alone again without being able to even go to Walmart to buy Scrubbing Bubbles to clean the shower? awww...I really should feel bad for the poor idiot!

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Sat, 03/26/2011 - 12:53am

We are in Puerto Rico...a great place if you can afford to leave your house...we can't. Actually, it's not even our house! It's a rented apt that was supposed to be rented for only 6mos! No date in sight in having our own place, no date in sight for me getting a car, no date in sight for anything except to continue sitting on my behind day in and day out...

Of course, a few weeks ago an ex-coworker asked me about me working part time for him in the future...I said yes of course, but who knows when/if that will happen...and DH was extremely happy we could now go on vacation? Really? WE? No, I don't think so. Yes, I'd bring more home working 20hrs than he does full time...but if I ever get that job, there won't be a single penny going to this household...I'll be gone with my son!

PS - he can't deal with me because I complain too much...always in a bad mood...doesn't understand WHY?