It does matter to me this week if its my x or my DH........they are all out there some where this week and it does not seem that they are on planet earth.

Sat. night SD5 called at about 6pm, which was strange because she never calls, DH calls every night around 7 to tt kids. She called to tell him about her day and then said she was going to spend the night with her aunt because her mommy's air was still hot(air conditioning problems since Wed?) so DH asked....is mommy coming with you? she said no... We kept her Wed(our regular night) and then BM called Thurs at 6pm and said air was still broke could we come get SD5 for night? So we did.
So I reminded him of right of first refusal for Sat. night? He called her back and said SD5 said she is going to aunts house for night- because of air???....why did I not get right of first refusal? She said it was none of his business, and that she was just spending some time with aunt and BM had some stuff to do......ummmmhummmmm.... and SD5 was not spending the night but if she did mom would prob stay with her.... Still didnt answer question but DH did not throw a fit about it either.....gggrrrrr. If we would have done that to BM the police would be beating our door down with BM to get kids from where ever they were. DH said its ok, we have plans in the AM. I was mad because he always rolls over and she gets what she wants....

So then Sunday, I talk with my son who is at his BD for the week visiting since its summer(across town) and he tells me that his sister (not my daughter) who is 11 is going to babysit on Monday while BD and gf are at work. I went threw the roof......and BD does not understand why i am pissed.... So he ended up leaving kids with his brother kids uncle...

Men are there brains mush??