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Submitted by haykeegmom on Sat, 07/12/2014 - 2:07pm

BM is only allowed to see the boys for 4 hrs a month, supervised visitation. Our 8 yr old hates her and NEVER wants to see her. The guardian ad lietim makes him go to counseling. Now she is going to make him and her go to counseling with her. He does NOT want to go! Is there anything I can do as a step mom to prevent this?

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Submitted by haykeegmom on Wed, 07/16/2014 - 3:21pm

I think I worded things wrong. He is just so angry and sad at the same time, I am just trying to protect him. I am not trying to prevent him from going. I think it is a good idea. I am constantly telling him he needs to forgive her. She is you mom. I just don't think that she should get unsupervised visitation. She is taking us back to court for that.

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Submitted by haykeegmom on Wed, 07/16/2014 - 3:17pm

I don't or do not want to stop the counseling. BM has been violent toward the 8 yr old. That is part of the reason he hates her so much. I have been very postive and have constantly reminded him that she IS his mom and he need to forgive her. I think the counseling is a good idea. But my thing is, I don't think she should get unsupervised visitation. She has not been clean for even 8 months.

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Submitted by haykeegmom on Wed, 07/16/2014 - 3:26pm

She only get to see them supervised at the FRC 4 Hrs a month. Due to being violet with the oldest. She was drunk. We have ALOT of evidence. She is not allowed to call, text or make any contact with us. If she sees us in public she has to remove herself. She has been in contempt of court many times. She is not even allowed to come to sports or school activities.