what if i suspect my ss18 is a childmolester...i have no proof but my gut tells me otherwise! He has talk to my kids about masturbation "jokingly" we just found that out and i havnt seen him since or i would have confronted him. Dh has spoken to him on the phone but never mentioned it i guess. Well last nite Dh tells me that ss has to move from his papaws because of a 7 yr old girl that stays there on weekends...well her grandmother wont allow her to stay when he is there but he wont tell dh why!! I think ss grandpa is a sicko anyway and shouldnt be hanging with a little girl but thats a whole other story i wont touch...i dont want to be over acting but i dont want to be a fool and put my kids in danger!! I dont want him living here at all and i think Dh is hinting for it and so is ss..over my dead body i cant allow this! Im at wits end with ss anyway..he acts like a 12 yr old when hes here and pics at my kids constantly. I dont know what i need to look for (what are the signs) that somthing isnt right with him??? Any advise? And also..we dont really know ss that well because he hasnt had anything to do with Dh until this year because of ..u guessed it BM..so i dont know what hes been thru or anything..Im just concerned.