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Submitted by hatemyhusband on Wed, 04/08/2015 - 4:53am

I can stay where I am, my kids would have a good education, but be exposed,to a lot of diversity (socio economic-racially about the same )? Or move literally a 3 minute drive and have just as good education with less diversity(less socio-economic diversity not racial)and smaller class size? Test scores and home prices equal.

My dilemma, of course moving is a lot of work. Really, financially it's the same. Do I expose them to a wide variety of kids ? Some negative influences.and larger class sizes. Or do I keep them with kids like them? Socio economically. Smaller class sizes.

My "coochie burns " /nasty & manipulative

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Submitted by hatemyhusband on Sat, 01/10/2015 - 9:04pm

We have a pool or we would go to pools, from 4-6 years old, each and every time my SD went swimming, it was always my coochie burns. Everyone else was fine, no issues with private parts or eyes. Each and every time. My H would rinse her with a hand held shower each and every time, or just bathe/shower her, whichever. When she was about 6 or so, maybe 7 , he thought she was too old and asked me to do it. I remember that day, it was at a water park. My kids are having fun and I can't be with them,, because I'm helping this nasty manipulative bitch in training rinse her " coochie".

Early days when my son was a newborn/infant

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Submitted by hatemyhusband on Mon, 12/15/2014 - 12:55am

My kids were 8, SD 9. My kids held the baby at first but then interacted with him when he was in a swing, bouncy, me holding him. SD always made a big spectacle of herself, how she was holding the baby. It was all about showing off. I was always uneasy, but back then trying so hard to be "blended" family. She didn't hurt him, or do anything outright reckless. It was the careless way she held him, like he was an object. And the distracted way she was focused on drawing attention and praise on herself. I guess it was more her distracted, careless attitude that had me on edge.

Thanksgiving fun

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Submitted by hatemyhusband on Fri, 11/28/2014 - 4:47am

I do all the thanksgiving prep Wednesday. While H is at work. And I had my 3 kids and my nephew. Just me and kids. All finished. The plan is H is going to take our son to a movie and I'm going to get a pedicure with my daughter. I premake our sons dinner and cover it and put it in the microwave. I thought I might run late with the pedicures as it is in a mall, and the day before thanksgiving. The plan was to get Chinese take out for the rest of us. But I told my H that it would be too late for our son, who is 2. That he would have dinner and the rest of us would eat as soon as we could.

H gets what he deserves regarding his oldest

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Submitted by hatemyhusband on Fri, 11/21/2014 - 10:10am

SD 23 has not been returning his calls or texts for a few weeks now. Little history, she's been using him for years. When we met she was 15 and the only time she saw him was when he was giving her rides, or taking her shopping or out to eat. Then when she was 16, and got a car and license, it was just for shopping and going out to eat. Around 18, it turned into, she would meet him a few times a year for dinner and he would give her money.and it got less and less. So after a few weeks of not answering his calls and texts, he decides he's just going to stop by her apartment.

H says I shouldn't read the book David goes to school to our 2 year old

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Submitted by hatemyhusband on Thu, 11/13/2014 - 8:53am

Says that book is causing our son's tantrums and defiance. He is 2. Actually 2.5 years old. That means tantrums are normal. It doesn't mean he gets a free pass from me. This is the same man who takes orders from his 12 year old. Who makes exscuses for her, due to the divorce and everything else. This man raised a very obese and friendless girl. So no I won't be taking parenting advice from him.

Luchay somewhat similar (non violent) incident I went through

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Submitted by hatemyhusband on Mon, 11/10/2014 - 8:46pm

My daughter 10 at the time and my SD 11 at the time and my son 10 at the time and my other son 1 at the time and my H went to a trampoline type place. The place is nothing but trampolines. SD kept cornering daughter to prevent her from jumping, or if she would run away fast and try to jump SD would get close to her as soon as she could and again block her. My daughter came and told my H and me. We were in the little kids area with our one year old son. My son was in a separate area on the other side. It led to a screaming match between both H and I and SD, daughter was just crying.

SD 12 makes my H eat off her dirty plate

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Submitted by hatemyhusband on Sat, 11/08/2014 - 10:02pm

So we went out for pizza, me, H, SD 12, our son 2. The plates are set out. Then while H is in bathroom pizza comes, we start eating, H comes back. SD says to him dad do you want my crust? H says no. SD says here Dad take it. H says I don't want it leave it there. SD takes his clean unused plate for herself, and puts her dirty used plate with a half eaten crust in front of him. H says nothing and eats dinner off a dirty plate. Good, just what he deserves.

Pretending to parent

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Submitted by hatemyhusband on Sat, 11/01/2014 - 8:09pm

My H made a big to do telling me this morning that his daughter 12 was only getting fruit and vegetable snacks and salads for meals on his time. She is very overweight, as in the fattest girl in her whole grade, the fattest or almost fattest everywhere she goes in public. She's 12. I am totally disengaged for years and cordial only, keep contact and conversation as minimal as possible. So out of the blue he tells me this. Like we weren't even talking, it's not like it flowed with the conversation.

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