My ex SIL is my best friend. She and I talk almost everyday. We rarely bring up her brother. Frankly, the mention of his or his kids name makes my stomach quesy.

We were divorced last Nov. I was just sick and tired of MY home being used as a garbage pit, his skids being nasty, disrespectful and well plain evil crotch droppings. His ex wife literally drove me batty and was always trying to control our home and my ex husband was always in a bad mood. Add to it his leukemia, going to court all the time because BM wanted more child support, and finanically supporting the whole family because he couldnt work for 2 years.

I was getting such bad panic attacks and getting depressed. My 16 yr old daughter said to " You arent the same person anymore. Its like you are a stranger."

A week later I kicked him and his kids out of my house and divorced his 4 months later. I didnt have the slightest desire to work things out. I realised my life has VALUE and I wasnt put on this earth to be used and abused.

So back to my SIL. She told me my ex had met someone at a church singles meet up. She has NO kida and has her own house. He has an apt now. They had been dating 6 weeks.

True to my ex husband's character he asked her to keep his kids over spring break because he was working and she works from her house as a medical coder. She agreed but she had not really spent anytime with the kids prior to this. ( that was her misfortune)

She kept them Monday and Tuesday and by Wednesday she called him at work and said she would not keep them the rest of the week. They were trashing her home, complaining about what she was feeding them, fighting with each other and being disrespectful to her. She also said they were very loud when she had asked them many times to quiet down because she was working.

Ex husband was pissed because she said he needed to leave work and come get them , she couldnt stand it one more min. LOL!!

So he sent his mom to get the boys from her house and she told his mom " I can see why his former wife divorced him and refused to keep his kids. They act like they were raised in a barn."

She also told ex mom that in the future, she would not be seeing him EOW when he had the kids and would make other plans.

So asshole..............I guess I wasnt the crazy one after all. She caught on MUCH quicker than I did.

The irony of it is BM is off all of Spring break because she is a teacher. Really, ex husband should have had her keep her own kids and not dumped them on the girlfriend.

I cant tell you guys how freaking HAPPY I am to be done with those freaks and have my clean home, peaceful life back!!!! No more nasty bathrooms, disgusting bedroom, pee on seats, wiping poop on my towels, texts and calls in middle of night from BM, court appearences, being cussed at, and just the ANXIETY and DEPRESSION.

I reclaimed my life back and only regret it took my 3 years to finally have enough.