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SD's all over DH..Is this normal??

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Submitted by Hapifutr2628 on Wed, 10/16/2013 - 7:34am

His daughters are 10 & 12... Him and I will be sitting on the couch, and no matter what they are doing, once they see this, they come over and lay all over him. Daddy can you rub my back, daddy cuddle with me, daddy daddy. They still ask to be carried to bed! And he does it! Is this normal or am I the wicked SM because this seriously makes me nauseous.

Is this normal?

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Submitted by Hapifutr2628 on Tue, 10/15/2013 - 2:07pm

I am new to this site. Is it normal that I am cringing at the fact that my DH's kids are going to now be spending a few extra weekends with us because BM's has plans? Honestly wondering if I am a bad person for wanting to find other things to do on my own when they are going to be with at our house. He has 2 girls, 10 & 12. Does anyone else feel this way???

Advice? Help!

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Submitted by Hapifutr2628 on Tue, 10/15/2013 - 12:45pm

So glad to have found this site! My husband and I recently married this summer, together 2.5 yrs. He has two girls, 10 & 12. I have two kids, boy, 6 and girl 10. From the very beginning of our relationship their BM has said horrible things about me, like you don't see daddy as much because of her, or daddy can't come because of her. That has been the foundation of where we are at now. I spent the first year and half feeling like I had to be overly nice and wanting them to like me, but now I find myself not caring if they like me or not.