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Long and probably repeating of earlier posts...

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I am the (hated) stepmother of a soon to be 10 year old. His mother is only a mother during birthdays and Christmas (in which I have to completely rearrange everything for her). I also have a MIL that tries to be his mother. I get lots of guilt trips and I can't get some of the awful words that she has told me out of my head. My FIL is the same way. My husband thinks that I am imagining things and always gives me a guilt trip as well when I don't want to go over there. I am frightened when I go over there. My SS goes over there every weekend.

I haven't been on in a while...

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But that doesn't mean it is any better. DH is working nights again. Which mean SS is going to be a butt. He hasn't eaten dinner in 3 nights. His grandparents think I am starving him so they keep sending him junk food home with him (Which I found hidden in his bedroom). He can't go on the field trip tomorrow because he is in detention(Which is fine since DH didn't sign the permission slip that was on the dining room table anyways). SS is frustrating the ever living crap. The toilet is nasty and not flushed and will back up.

You've got to be kidding right

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DH...you actually went behind my back to get your son the damn thing he wanted while I was gone to take my brother home. I told him and you that he could not have that and you decided to give him the damn thing anyway. Well your bright son failed to get rid of all the evidence. So I found out. Thanks! Also, since your lovely son decides to steal the food that my mother bought us since we don't have but $5 in the bank, when we run out, we run out. Get off your lazy ass and find a damn way to get this fixed!

I hate eating dinner with them

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If Dad makes something, he eats it. If I made the same dang thing, he despises it. He will add stuff like hot sauce which he says he likes but hten it gets "too spicy for him". You added it, you eat it. Of course that doesn't happen. So we ask for extra bread. Which is what we eat...that's it! I'm the only one who sees this and it makes me sick to my stomach and not wanting to eat with them.

Food

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So SS refuses to eat the food that I cook. He's been losing weight so DH is letting him eat whatever he wants because of it. Why don't you just tell the damn child to eat what is cooked? So now I have to buy extra food just so the punk can have "something to eat"!

I haven't written in a while.

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I haven't written in a while but that doesn't mean things are any better. Just get tired of repeating the same problems but today I have to write. What do you do when your DH won't listen to you when you say you don't want to talk about it? I have told you before what's wrong, you get upset and think it's not a big deal, then you get upset with me that I think so. Nothing gets resolved and I'm back to crying and your son is back to treating me like dirt. (Which I have to be careful saying that because he uses my words now!) How many times do I have to tell you that?

Boy Who Cried Wolf

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What does one do when one lives with a wolf crier? He complains in the morning that he no one has gotten his food for him. (He's 9) When I have gotten his food for him, he's fused about the cereal being soggy or shit like that. When he goes to bed, he starts coughing. I know that he has fake coughed before so how do I know if it's real? How do I know if anything he does is real? I've been blamed numerous times for not believing in the child. Not having faith in the child. Not trusting the child.

SS comes back

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SS comes back from grandparent's house today. So not ready for it. It has been a quiet time in the house since Saturday morning. I do not want him to come back home. It kinda ruined my day since I thought he was coming back tomorrow. Who knows what all was said while he was there this time so who knows what will be done when he gets back home. Sad

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