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R U F'N KIDDING ME????

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Tue, 12/01/2009 - 10:25pm

So I know I shouldn't have , but I just couldn't help myself. DH and I have our own computers & emails so we really don't see each others stuff. Once in awhile I get an overwhelming urge to take a peek and see what BM is up to cuz I can tell she is acting different. When she does this I have always found that she emails queer stuff to DH such as "Can you believe we made these beautiful children together?" or recalling something from the past (their life together) and pointing it out. So anyway, I check and last week she sent an email stating someone had asked her if DH was her husband at an event, and she goes on to say ex husband... blah, blah,blah. But later she signs her email "Yours Truly, the First Mrs. DH". What the F???!!!! As far as I can tell my DH did not acknowledge this comment, as he usually doesn't entertain these, but I am just LIVID!!!! And of course now I can't say anything because I was snooping!!!! AAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Tue, 12/01/2009 - 10:33pm

I know... I know.... }:) Thanks Crystal! I should just feel sorry for BM.... that's just pathetic

"No One Ever Said Life Is Fair!"- My Father

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Submitted by buttercup123 on Tue, 12/01/2009 - 10:50pm

Hahahaha! She is certifiable!! What a quack.

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Tue, 12/01/2009 - 11:00pm

uh.... no offense steve, but i don't think thats the case. If it is... thats fine too. I was upset for a few mins, but then I just thought how pathetic she is sooo....

Just to point out, there is a difference between being "friendly" and the things she writes/says. They would make many people uncomfortable, I dont think its just me.

"No One Ever Said Life Is Fair!"- My Father

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Tue, 12/01/2009 - 10:54pm

Yes...yes she is! And my DH just can't figure out why she bothers me so much.... ugghhhhh

"No One Ever Said Life Is Fair!"- My Father

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Wed, 12/02/2009 - 1:18am

The witch ex-wife in our case thought it was perfectly acceptable for her to play that game with DH, since she was his wife first...seems to be something that some BMs feel entitled to...even if they are married again...hmmm...I would still lose it and tell him...argh...amazing...somehow being the first wife gives them a right to be slu...s...hmmm

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Submitted by Kb3Hooah on Wed, 12/02/2009 - 6:25am

IMO, this is unacceptable. Sure it's great for things to be amicable between DH and BM, but there is no need for any type of 'relationship' other than being parents to the same children, you can be amicable while doing this.

It's hard to say how I would handle this if my Ex were sending me messages along these lines....just to think about him saying things like that sends shivers down my spine, yuck! Would I ignore it or would I ask him to stop? Not sure, but either way, I don't think either of those are the wrong way to handle it. But I can see why ignoring it might lead to one thinking that was an agreeance in what was being said....so that's why you shouldn't snoop! Smile

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