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DH and I bought a new king sized mattress that was delivered today. The one that was on our bed is only 4 years old (and I purchased it before we were married and before joint finances ) but DH wanted more pillow top.

I was going to put it online for cheap and if I was no getting a response then I would give it away. DH asks if I am asking any money for the mattress. I tell him $125 and if it doesn’t go I will post a free ad on the weekend. 

He told me: “if we are going to give it away I would rather put it in storage and see if skid wants it” 

So very tired of it all

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So tired of skid24 and DH. 

Friday night I made homemade pizza, like I normally do on Friday’s but this Friday I offered to make skid and his GF pizza too which normally I do not do lately because skid is such an asshole. They stayed in for the night, ate pizza and went to watch TV on the big screen in the basement. 

Skid 24 suddenly a germaphob?

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Skid24 decided he is going to clean his bathroom (the 3rd time since he has been here in 4.5 months, he is suppose to do it weekly). 

He asked daddy if there are any disposable gloves so he could clean it. I so I had to bite my tongue not not laugh. Skid’s bathroom is gross, I would never use it. He has no problem bathing in filth, sitting in his own piss and crap, brushing his teeth is slime (even leaves his toothbrush lying in it) but needs to glove up. 

Skid24- needs to leave vent

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Stepson is such an a$$hole. His very presence in my life bothers the crap out of me. May 31st can not come soon enough. He is suppose to move out at the end of May. I will be reminding my husband of this fact next week so he can make sure skid24 plans accordingly. 

I am tired of skid’s attitude and his entitlement, it will be a stretch to hold on until the end of May. Not only do I hate the way he treats me but how he treats his dad. 

DH co-signing mtg for skid behind my back - vent

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After the Christmas sh!t storm, skid returned a couple days later because DH said we all should sit down and talk. I told DH that I’m concerned that he will avoid talking and say nothing. Yup I was right. By the end of it DH just says “well I guess we will just hit the reset button and do better”. I could feel my face turn red with anger but I wasn’t about to let skid see that there is a great big divide between me and DH. All skid said is he frustrated that he doesn’t have his own place and he doesn’t have his dog. Like that gives you a license to be an a$$hole. 

 

Christmas Dinner sh1t storm

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I hosted Christmas Dinner for Dh's family, I had 14 ppl here. Most years I host and it goes well. My bio son and me worked all day trying to make sure everything was perfect. The 26-pound turkey turned out great. 

Skid was in and out of the house all day. Of course, never offered to help, didn't even clean his room or his bathroom like he is supposed to. DH attended to that. Skid was pouty all day, I even asked DH what is up with him, DH said he did not notice. I just ignored it and continued working with my son in the kitchen.

Gift from “skid”

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So DH has done is shopping and his wrapping. All is placed under the tree.

Last year I told him to stop buying a gift and wrapping it to me love skid. Skid24 is a grown up he can purchase his own gifts if he chooses to. I asked him last year not to because I don’t like being in the position of thanking skid for a gift that he had nothing to do with. I don’t want to make a scene at gift opening or made to feel awkward. 

I looked under the tree and I saw a gift marked to Grace, Love skid in DH’s handwriting, I know that it’s from DH. 

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