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Not sure about this...what do y'all think

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SS12 is out of school for the summer. He goes to the Y some days. At BMs I assume he sits on his butt all day. ANYWAY so he asked me if DS5 can stay home with him on the saturdays he is with us...I am not sure how I feel about this.

SS12 asked for this so I'm guessing he's lonely all day by himself and knows that DS5 will never give up going to my sisters during the week because she has a pool that they live in. My sister has offered for SS to come over during the week if he wants.

A short update on the CO question from yesterday

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After we got the issue sorted out that what she wanted was to switch weeks and DH said no we thought that was the end of it. BM texted DH asked what time he was picking SS up today.

Taking the advice of one of the posters I told DH to advise her to check the CO for the summer schedule.

LOL

This b*tch responded "Don't tell me what to do" and then "I know what it says"

CO question

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The summer schedule reads that BM gets the last two weeks of June for vacation. We get the first two weeks of July and SS gets the last two weeks of July and first two weeks of August to go to my ILs (he has been doing this every year since he was 4 and BM tried to prevent him from going one year so DH had it put in the CO)

Why is this now a problem? *SIGH* I'm so over this BS

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SS broke his phone. He plugged his phone into DH's blue tooth charger instead of his phone charger and melted the port. BM doesn't have a home phone so it worries DH a lot when SS is home alone at her house that he has no way to call for help. I suppose he could go to the neighbor. DH was really mad about SS's grades and was going to buy him a 10.00 trac phone so he would have a way to call if he needed something. Well SS really pulled it out and made A/B honor roll. Plus had perfect attendance for all marking periods except the first one but he broke his hand.

Father's Day

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I had to work but I left DH in the very capable hands of the kids. They cleaned the house before he got up. Which is nice they usually need to be told. We got Father's Day cards and they got DH a Barnes and Noble gift card and SS bought some kind of star wars thing and DS drew him a picture and he wrote Happy Father's Day all by himself! So cute.

I gave SS12 cash to take DH to lunch.

After I got home we were hanging out at the pool and BM texted DH "happy father day. please have SS call me" Poor DH LOL

O/T best autocorrect EVER! (this is probably TMI)

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DH has been working 2-4 hours over every night this week and I have been working 7 days a week so we've both been really tired and haven't really been intimate this week. Last night DH practically attacked me when I got home.

While we were "recovering" I asked him what that was all about

He said "your text message."

Text message?

I looked at my phone. I meant to say 'I am so effing hungry I can't wait to get home' but it Autocorrected to "I am so effing horney I can't wait to get home" LOL

Does anyone else's skid do this?

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SS12 likes to try to get people in trouble.

For example:

SS: This woman was trying to flirt with Dad at the pool yesterday
ME: Oh yea? Was she hot?
SS: Yep, she was really pretty and she had blonde hair and really big boobs
ME: Well that's a relief. I don't like it when ugly chicks hit on your dad
SS: Oh that doesn't bother you?
ME: Nope.
SS: My mom would have went crazy on step dad
ME: Well I'm not your mom.<<<--actually said
ME(in my head):Thank God I am nothing like that sea donkey you have for a mother

O/T about DS5 What am I going to do with this boy?

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We took SS12 to the football meeting last night. It basically went over the rules to play sports etc. The very beautiful young teacher that explained the rules about grades asked if there were any questions and my 5 year old raised his hand and asked for a hug. Of course he's adorable so she said yes. When we left he said she was pretty. *sigh* I don't know where he gets this from.

Drop off this morning

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Usually cuntalotapus or her DH drops SS off at our house in the mornings about 5-10 minutes before the bus comes. The last two weeks they have been dropping him off 30-60 minutes before the bus comes. This morning Mr. Cuntalotapus shows up as I was putting DS in the car. Here is the brief exchange:(Her DH is not allowed to speak to me)

What do you think?

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This has been bugging me...DH asserts all the time that he has legal custody of SS12. It's not stated in their CO. Their CO says they have 50/50 and each parent pays for the child when he is in their home and necessary medical/dental out of pocket costs are to be split 50/50. Extra curricular activities are to be split 50/50 if both parties agree. If not, the parent that wants it has to pay. I interpret this to mean they have 50/50 legal and physical custody.

He says he has legal custody for the following reasons:

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