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Submitted by Frustrated_in_M... on Tue, 11/10/2009 - 5:59pm

Ok, it's getting worse and worse with the kids (SS 7, SD 6). They cannot make it though the night at our house without waking up and crying because they 'miss mommy.' I already had to unhook all the phones in the house when they come over so they won't get up at 2am and call her. She sees that as a victory in her book and an opportunity to come down on BF for being such a horrible parent.

I'm not his babysitter....

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Submitted by Frustrated_in_M... on Tue, 11/03/2009 - 5:48pm

So BF wants to get involved with the local ice hockey team doing stats. Home games are sometimes two nights in a row, Friday and Saturday. When these fall on his visitation weeks he seems to think that the 2 kids and I (6 and 7) will merrily just go to the game and watch. We wouldn't get to watch with him as he'd be off doing something else. He doesn't seem to get the fact that 1. that takes away from his limited time with his kids (he gets them only every other weekend) and 2... I AM NOT HIS BABYSITTER!

Another Skid weekend starts tomorrow... sigh...

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Submitted by Frustrated_in_M... on Thu, 09/10/2009 - 6:23pm

Another weekend with the kids this weekend. 2 weekends ago when we had them it was a cryfest all night long because they 'missed mommy.' Like I said in my last blog post.. this crying thing is new... we've had the kids every other weekend at my place since the BF moved in back in July. This crying and waking up at 2am to call BM thing is new.

Last time she blamed it on me!

How is this MY FAULT!!

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Submitted by Frustrated_in_M... on Wed, 09/02/2009 - 5:03pm

Ok, in my last blog entry I mentioned how the SS7 and SD6 woke up Friday night at 2am and picked up and called BM crying because they missed her so much. This crying BS is new... they have been staying every other weekend with us for a year we have never dealt with this crying problem before.

BF was at work. It's month end and to avoid having to go in over the weekend, and taking time away from his time with the kids, he went in to work at 10pm - 2am after the kids were asleep. At 11pm I checked on the kids and saw they were sound asleep and went to sleep myself.

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Submitted by Frustrated_in_M... on Mon, 08/31/2009 - 6:07pm

Hello,

I'm new to the forum and just looking for a place to be able to vent and get some support. I've been dating a man for a year now. He moved into my house in July. He has a daughter 6 and son 7 from a previous marriage. I'm not sure I know what I'm getting myself into. Sometimes I feel like I should just run away.