I just joined this site and feel like I have found some kindred spirits. Let me fill you in on MY last (and quite typical) week. My 8yo stepson called me a "fake mom"(the origin of my nifty screen name) 3 times, rabbit once (this from a kid whose mother is frequently referred to as chia pet, horse face, or just plain old 'bless her heart - I hope she is smart or has a big trust fund'), mean 11 times, rude 14 times. We had 5 pepperoni pizzas, 3 trips for ice cream, 5 different 'on demand' play dates (four of which I set up and another which their oh so kind mother set up for me. She then calls my house, ASKS for the kid and tells him what time this playmate is coming to MY house.)
We went to see 2 crappy kids movies, One $300 night at Dave and Busters. 2 new video games. I hosted 2 pool parties for families with kids for them to play with. One trip to chick-fil-et and one to the local burger joint. one friend to sleep over. NO BEDTIME, video games until 3am or later. Six crying fits, 10 "I'm bored"s,4 hours at the science museum. No veggies for an entire week. ONE bath and 3 (possibly 4) sessions with the tooth brush.

Believe it or not I really care for these boys and want better than this for them! Remember, the opposite of love is not hate..but apathy. We are here ranting because we care.

top that ladies!! Bring it on!

Step parenting, same work....less reward