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Submitted by EricsGirl007 on Mon, 05/23/2011 - 5:07pm

I am so frustrated. My SO and I have been together for over 2 years and the entire time has been a struggle with his ex over divorce and custody. Our day had finally come, our final hearing was set for the end of this month...it was like the light at the end of the tunnel! Unfortunately we just received an email from attorney stating that since EX has not turned in her CFI paperwork, the CFI asked for an extension to get her investigation done and they are pushing it back AGAIN!! The new date they gave us is January 4th! This is the 2nd time this has happened and I really don't know what to do or who to talk to about it.
I feel like this is something evil EX is doing on purpose so that SO and I can't move on. I am having a hard time venting to my SO because all he can see are the positives....excuse me what positives? I feel like I am doing nothing but running into a brick wall....some guidance would be nice

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Submitted by belle_27 on Mon, 05/23/2011 - 6:38pm

i feel the total same.. but mine been almost 3 years!!! im just so over it being about them. What about my time? what about the people who support and love them and do everything for them and we never get our turn in the spot light, its just about being patient. its just crap these woman who do this have been advised to do it and stall as long as possible i get that, but morally its just disgusting!

so many times this has happened to us, you think its finally over and BM pulls something else out of her a$$ and delays it as usual. She is still with in FDH houe for fee... spending up all her money and pulling the poor single mum card, and we have the kids 50% of the time.