I know it's a holiday weekend and I don't know how much the blog will be up and going. MIL has offered to take SD for the Thanksgiving Day which I think is the best choice. My father is recently recovering from a major operation not to mention that having SD around over the past several years on a Good Day has been very tense (DH husband watches out for every single nasty word/gesture/etc that might be a slight to his daugher). I've suggested to DH that perhaps the best option is for SD to go with MIL so I/we can relax for once. I didn't get an immediate response so I told him to think it over and get back to me. He doesn't want to make an absolute decision b/c he's waiting for BM to swoop in and say "Hey you know what, I understand that I created this monster but maybe she can come home with mom for the weekend and hang out." :O I hate these people. I wish someone could tell me that I was comatose when I made these desicions so I couldn't be held responsible but I fear I've done this all to myself.:barf: