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Yeah...I'm done being a step anything

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I know now that how I felt or feel about the BM and the kids and the inlaws is mostly SO's fault. He made me feel bad about the way I looked or the way I am and I have been unable to feel like an individual since I moved in with him. (I'm tall and thin and I have my own successful business)So I am ready to get my wings back and go live in a trailer if I need to. So that I don't have to feel jealous or bad because the ex gets everything she wants even though she has been an unkind person.

Is this normal?

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My husband always takes his ex's new son with her current husband every holiday, every vacation... this is not his son..he has a biological son with her which I have no problem with him coming over, its just that why do we need extra children when we already have 6 between us ( I have 3 from previous marriage and a new baby with him) Does this seem strange? I wouldn'y mind it ocassionally but my schedule is so full already.I work full time go to school full time and we have a new baby.