I can't remember the last time he did laundry! I did make him wash his sheets the other night and of course, he tried only washing the fitted sheet. I made him go back and get pillow cases etc!!

He's got dirty clothes all over the floor. This drives me crazy! There is a laundry hamper right there in his room!! How difficult is it to use? I will admit my BD15 has a hard time using her hamper as well and I get just as frustrated!!!

I guess its time to accept that fact! My resentment towards DH & SS is growing and I'm afraid I'm going to lose control!

SS14 continues to screw up every chance he gets! There are never any consequences for his behavior so of course he never learns anything! Not only does DH overlook most of his behavior but so do SS teachers and coach and any other adult!

I have raised my BD by myself who entire life. She is now 14 and has no real relationship with her father. DH has been her only father figure and she really does love him!!

Last night we were at school meeting and I was completing paperwork. I normally leave the "father" part blank or cross it out. DH was sitting next to me and said "oh, I like how you just completely leave me out." I was very surprised! I said well legally you aren't her father so I always list him a emergency contact.

Does anyone think I should list him as father even though he has no legal rights?

SS14 was supposed to leave tonight for the week!! He's supposed to go with BM because DH works night and sleeps in days therefore SS14 is left "unattended." I'm perfectly fine with her wanting him, right? I am going to deal with SS on weekend while DH at work because BM wants him during the week. My thought is why the hell does he have to stay with me on weekend? He has a mother!