Okay, Kind of a rant, also want input. So I take care of the SKids most of the time, two boys whom I adore even though they are little terrorists. Their BM is kinda useless when it comes to anything but yelling at them, my husband, and me. 

Me and my husband originally lived in Arizona but moved to Texas when she took the boys, but him and I wanted to get out of Arizona anyway so moving wasn't a big deal to us. When we were in Arizona, BM, my husband and I had an agreement that since I was currently (and perminantly as far as I know) working from home, that I could watch the boys while they are at work. They love me and I love them so of course no problem, I love to spend the time with them. 

So here's the problem. She has always been one to pawn the boys off on anyone willing to watch them. While me and my husband were moving to Texas, she had to have a babysitter while she was at work, so she let the creepy neighbor she didn't know watch them. Horrible decision... but whatever. She is having a midlife crisis or something because all I hear from the boys is that she dresses up and goes out to party all the time and left them with whoever was available. This turned her into treating me as If i were a babysitter. Even offered to start paying me.... During the day while they were at work turned into that and every other weekend. Okay they get to spend more time with their father that's good. Then it turned into every other week they just stay the night during weekdays and that weekend. Now.. 4 months in and they are here every day and night except every other weekend from Saturday morning to Sunday afternoon when my husband picks them up. On top of that my husband is paying child support....

I was able to keep a level head because I love these kids and even though I'm not their mom, its nice to have them around being able to help with homework and keep track of them brushing teeth and medicines. It's a gift to me because I wanted kids but sadly am not able to have my own. The little heathens aren't my problem (I jokingly call them that all the time and they think its funny.. their dad does not)... its the fact that she tells me what to do in regards to the boys when she is never the one caring for them. My husband takes care of their night time routine while I work and I take care of them during the day. She gets them every other weekend and from what the boys say she's on her phone the whole time on Snapchat and instagram. 

I am not their mother and will never claim to be, but I'm tired of her talking to me like I'm incapable just because I dont have kids of my own. 

"Why does he have a B in math, when I was taking care of them by myself they had straight A's!"

Yes because when you were caring for them. They actually went to school instead of having to figure out some god awful online program that I dont even understand. And i dont think a B in math is bad considering this women didn't graduate Highschool.

My husband said he doesn't care about the child support because from we can tell it all does go to clothes and other stuff for them, but I just think at this point he should get full custody.. I want to bring it up to him but he doesn't like talking about anything involving courts... Should I just leave it alone?