BM might have just ruined DH's day.
When we have SD, her mother barely calls her lately. And when she does it's a quick hello, checks up on SD, and then goodbye. Well today is Father's Day and Dh and SD are hanging out having a moment when her fucking mother calls. Ugh. We wouldn't have even answered it if SD didn't see her name and knew who it was. Then her mother had a long drawn out talk with her.....
"I love you so much baby and miss you bunches bunches" "I love you too mommy" "wanna talk to the baby?" "Sure!" (Baby can't talk) "baby says she loves you so so so so much" "I love her too and I love you too mommy." "I love you too baby. Mwuah!" And they did that over and over for like five minutes.
Dh is annoyed because he didn't call his daughter on Mother's Day. That was her day, this was his. Why does she need to be such a bitch and invade it? The bitch never calls anyway but decides she will today on his day?! Seriously?!
Dh is contemplating calling her out on it.
It's not even like be called so SD could talk to her boyfriend or something (step but not so step dad). He was working. She didn't call yesterday and we've had her since Friday. Technically we are supposed to exchange today but we made a side agreement with her to exchange tomorrow that way he can get full Father's Day with his daughter like she gets for Mother's Day. The point was for his Father's Day not to be interrupted and then she goes and calls in the middle of it.
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F*cking bitch! That is the
F*cking bitch! That is the worst!! We have custody, BM has visitation. She would always send SS now 6 a present that would arrive the Saturday, the day before Father's Day. Think of me, love me... Etc. if he didn't see it, he didn't get it until Monday. f@ck her. I feel for you. This year, she's been in France for a month...so when my DH said she could call anytime, she didn't, it was nice.
SS6 talks to his BM twice a day if she's on the grid...sometimes she's camping or in crystal class or whatever weirdo crappola of the month she's into. We have found that making the calls take place well before bedtime and when activities are transitioning makes it better. (Just before off to school, in the morning) That way he doesn't dwell on her fake words. But sometimes he sees the call so we can't pick the best timing. But sometimes we have to put the call out bc she forgets, it's not in the court order but they have been doing it for over 5years, DH speaks to SS twice a day when he's with her.
if he's on an electronic device, SS cannot be pried away by any of her words, so she'll often say, call from bed. He wants that because it adds to keeping himself up later. f@ck that. We've learned since she's been 6 hours ahead these past 4 weeks that earlier in the evening is better...doesnt amp him up.
I hope your family can salvage the day! Gotta switch gears and make her forget!
I dunno, there are a lot of
I dunno, there are a lot of other things BM could have done to ruin his day, but spending 5 minutes talking on the phone shouldn't do it. Yes, I'm sure Bm planned this and thought she would get a rise out of him, which she did. I Would just ignore and move on with the day, life is to short to get worked up on every single thing BM does