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So frustrated right now.

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Good morning and yes, back so soon. Being new at dating DBF is not fun at all and on top of it all having a long distance relationship.

After having a great romantic last weekend, my BF goes back home and on Tuesday gets his 3 kids (9, 13, and 15) after being at BM for two weeks (longest they have been there since the divorce).

Is it necessary to have contact with BM?

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Because I am new at being GF to BF with 3 kids, is it necessary for me to have any future contact with BM once I get married? or even now. It is a serious relationship. She has already made me an enemy without meeting me first.

How do you deal with it? I am talking about seeing each other at soccer games, phone calls and etc...

At first my BF was suggesting to do so, but after her actions and my telling him that I don't want to be around her, he has dropped the subject.

What do I do?

House key and ex wife

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Hi,

I am a new member and also having a new experience with my divorced boyfriend with three kids.

Is it normal for his ex wife to have a key to his new house even after she left the marriage, lives 5 miles away from him? He says it's because in case the kids get locked out. My problem with it is that he's always there for the kids and she's never to be found even if htey were locked out of the house. Does not make sense.