We did talk about the issues we have, no emotions, just the facts. we were both in agreed that we are not communicating effectivly and need to work on that. He is not happy with who he is seperate from me bc he cant express himself or his feelings very well and I've tried to help him to communicate. He really needs counseling, but he wont take the time. I have been in counseling before so I know it'd help if he would be open to help.
Well, after I finally got all my feelings and suggestions out, he got quiet. it was quiet for 5-10 minutes, so I turned my music on to help me sleep. said good night to SO and he says "okay" with a tone. So I asked whats wrong? he says well i guess were done talking, i took the silence as that as well. I asked if he wanted to talk about anything else, he says, "no, your music is on. we are done talking." So I turned off the music and asked again, he says nothing again. I swear he acts like a woman sometimes. (no offense ladies, but we all know we are more manly than most of our SO's) I went to bed with no music and sulked bc he wouldnt talk about whatever bc I dont know why. I tried, I asked, I listened. Ever feel like the man in the relationship?