SD24 From Hell
So, last night...out of the blue, for no apparent reason, DH gets the following 8 (EIGHT) texts in a span of 12 minutes:
You are a pathetic excuse for a parent. I hope your truck falls into the pool again. Where's your conscience? How can you let your own flesh and blood
struggle like this? You are an asshole and I wish nothing but the worst for you and your fucked up nasty bitch wife
You are no better than A*** (*note-her heroin addict baby daddy) you guys would make great friends...Reproduce and let them struggle. Fuck you
Oh since that nasty thing you sleep with has you by the balls I hope she sees this and I hope you tell her that I think she's the biggest whore and can k
iss my ass. You are both going to hell tell your marital counselor I said so
Marriage counselor one year into marriage? You picked a real winner, B**. Thell your wife to get a real job...Hope she enjoys driving your daughters beat
up old car
I think its hilarious you accused my mom of sleeping with the same cop your skank wife had an affair with
Nice, huh? Merry Christmas to us. What should have been a happy evening (we just refinanced our home, and my name is now on the title) was crapped on. I sure hope she's happy with herself.
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Wow - talk about disturbed.
Wow - talk about disturbed. At 24 her ass should not be expecting daddy to help her financially. If she is struggling, it is because she is not being a responsible ADULT!! Your dh should just ignore the little witch and change his cell number.
"God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy" and you can't change crazy!!
Sounds like my entitled
Sounds like my entitled selfish brat of a SD. "Dad...I need money".
For once I wish he'd JUST SAY NO! Grow up and get a job and fend for yourself you ungrateful....
Hm. I think it's time to
Hm. I think it's time to erase the messages and realize that SD is miserable. Nobody who is happy acts that way. So until she gets her life together, which may very well be NEVER, distance. AND stop telling her, or letting DH tell her and her mother anything about your lives!
You are absolutely right.
You are absolutely right. The only thing you can do now is start purging them from your life. I would say be happy and nice from a distance, but always hold them at arms length. Concentrate on your own family and your own happiness and keep them out of the picture. Thank god they are all grown so you don't have to deal with CS and visitation!
Honestly, if I could deal with only the crap talking, and not the crap talking in addition to CS and custody issues, I'd take it in a heartbeat!
She knew about the
She knew about the refinance, right? Just another sign to her that you are in "her" rightful place, i.e attached to Daddy's property. I feel sorry for your DH having to realize what a gutter-mouth, uncouth, rude, stupid, totally no class child he raised. I agree with stepaside, Cut her off. She isn't worthy to get anything from you ever or even to be around you.
When my SIL ranted at me via email like that I told her I was sorry for her and asked her if that was the same mouth she used to kiss her momma. They are pathetic losers.
LOL....hear,
LOL....hear, hear!
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Devil - I think that no
Devil - I think that no matter how much we would like for people around us to respect us, love us, and atleast act like they have some sense, that most of the time, it's not possible for everyone to do. It would be nice if we could just verbalize how wrong we are being treated, and for it to poof, disappear. We have to let go of our strong desire for them to change, because no matter how much we want them to, we can't wish them into being people we would like.
The only thing we can control is ourselves, and we can minimize the impact it has on us. For example, from now on I wouldn't want to hear anything else SD says. If she text's or tells DH something nasty about you, tell DH to keep it to himself, especially if HE'S not going to deal with it in a manner that is appropriate. And if DH is allowing SD to speak to him that way, then he is contributing to her bad behavior by enabling it.
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“Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go.”
Thanks for the support. I
Thanks for the support. I find it rather funny that she talks about "struggling"...she is a nurse, and makes a very VERY good living. She lives with mommy, so not many living expenses. And she managed to buy herself a shiny new car (read my previous blog regarding THAT particular fiasco), so I can't even whip up a little sympathy for her.
I agree that I should tell DH to keep it to himself, but on the other hand, his spawn are known for storming our home and wreaking havoc, so I prefer to know when they are "riled up". Kind of a Catch 22 situation.
I honestly don't know if she knew anything about the refinance.
I've had restraining orders,
I've had restraining orders, harassment charges, and the like. They don't care. It's difficult to set limits when the offending party doesn't care/won't accept them. The police have removed them from my property more than once.
They are NOT allowed to
They are NOT allowed to visit. They come anyway. Thank God they haven't in a while, but I expect with the holidays, they will show up. Ugh.
Oh, and DH isn't exacty
Oh, and DH isn't exacty tolerant, but he is so hurt and upset and angry that he's basically paralyzed. I guess it's self-preservation.
WTH where did that come
WTH where did that come from?
Sounds to me like your SD24
Sounds to me like your SD24 was either completely drunk when she wrote this trash, or has a problem with prescription meds--or both!
So sorry you have to deal with this human crap. Life is too short.
I hope he didn't respond
I hope he didn't respond except to say "wrong number"
He didn't take the bait at
He didn't take the bait at all. Thank God.