You are here

kids liveing off you

deano3553's picture

my step daughter moved in and brought her new boyfriend. its been 6 mo. both work. they have not payed or helped. because they buy their on food they do not have to pay. i am retired and need help with bills. what should i charge them if i dont make them leave my wife does not support me

Comments

Unfreakingreal's picture

My oldest once had the NERVE to bring some girl he was dating to stay at my house. He had all her bags and everything. Apparently, he told her she could come live at our house. Hmmm...Really?!?!?
I called her parents and told them that their daughter was NOT allowed to live in my house and that I would be UPSing all her bags back to them.
I told her to leave my house immediately, when my son protested, I told him HE could leave too.
Done and never again. These fucking kids are too much.

deano3553's picture

thank you.i say something she crying and runs to her mother and we fight. i try to be good and fair, but i think its disrespect to me. we she she could stay hear her for a while she saved for own place he was hear for 3 days when i found out. her boyfriend tries to avoid me.i am very pissed. my stepdaughter makes more than my wife and i. its selfish of her but my wife says i am the selfish one.this is her 2nd divorce and we have helped her with money before. she uses her mom against me. i will tell them to get out or pay as soon as i decide how much the need to pay. enough is enough

deano3553's picture

thanks it is my home.This wouldn't have happened a few years ago. I had a stroke because in my brain a blood vane broke. This set me back for a few years. I am getting better and standing up for myself they don't know how to handle that. I fooled even the Doctors. I a am very lucky man.