:jawdrop: Just when I was happy here we go again! Now the 17 year old moved in with us. My husband didn't even ask me if it was okay. His son didn't even ask us, he just told his mom I'm moving in with my dad. Ugh, my SS has been fighting with his mom day and night. They keep calling my husband about it. The kids is not doing anything wrong, but his mom is trying to make a big deal of every. She goes off the wall and talks to him really bad for any little thing he does. My SS said he can't live with her anymore. He could move in with my husband's mom where his 21 year old sister is, but my husband wants him with him. I got really mad the day he moved in and told my husband I was leaving him. I told him that his kids are old now and they need to act like a why do we have to change our life because of their problems. The kids doesn't do anything bad to me and we do talk. It's just I don't want them leaving with us. They come with a string and their mom is at the end of it! I feel like I'm bad person for feeling this way. If I leave like I want to my two little kids that really need their dad are the ones that are going to get hurt. My son is 1 and my daughter is 6. Please HELP what do you think I should do?