You are here

Just when I think it's getting better

Daphne44's picture

Submitted by Daphne44 on Tue, 06/23/2015 - 8:06pm

Every time I think it's getting better.....
Same old pattern of abuse. SO sets boundries with the BM and Skids and then let's them walk all over them. Feel like I'm just wasting my time here. Does it ever get better? I feel like I'm getting over it I'm not angry just moved on to apathetic but he's really upset so basically we are a wreck.

Comments

IslandGal's picture

Submitted by IslandGal on Wed, 06/24/2015 - 4:28am

SO needs to be consistent with his boundaries. If hes having a hard time with it then hes not being serious about it, and is therefore, allowing shit to affect your relationship.

Monchichi's picture

Submitted by Monchichi on Wed, 06/24/2015 - 4:32am

Yes it get's better. Mine did even if it took 3 years. BM was quicker that took 6 months. SO still slips up with Chucky but no where near as bad as even a year ago.