My stepdaughter is horrible
I've been in a relationship with my bf for 7 years, his daughter was 3 years old at the time Of meeting her, she was sweet back then, until his mother got her clutches her. She's a bonafide sociopath, hates any woman in her son's life thinks she should be the only woman, so dealing with complete blind
Hatred towards me since meeting me, she manipulates his daughter into hating me and has been a bully towards me since then, complete fouL mouth and everything. I do everything for him and her that I completely am taken for granted for, everyday I'm getting beat down with attitude, my bf wants his dad's life where his mother took care of everything while all his dad had to do was work, come home and enjoy everything. With that I have no control over his kid since the age of 3 has been encouraged to defy and hate me, now at 9 years old Shes a horrible human being and she's gonna end up turning into an sociopath herself. Rendered by her grandma who spoils her and accommodates her, anything a child should be punished for she encourages it and I'm the target, she gets rewarded with bad behavior by her grandmother. 9 years old she acts like a teenager, acts all trashy and that's very odd to me I remember myself at that age and never ever treated my parents with disrespect. My problem my bf basically dumped all responsibility onto me, he don't take care of her acts like she's not his problem let's her do whatever she wants, no matter how much she hurts me. She lives with us 24/7. Him as a father is a shitty one, he's a gamer, everyday he spends his time completely gaming, stays up until 3-8 in the morning, sleeps until 1-4 in the afternoon doesn't care about me, but is forced with thus nasty responsibility, on top of it all completely ignores me and his complete focus is facing, but says he loves me right. He has what the fuck he wants I'm grounded as I fought for freedom I'm forced to take care of His horrible child. I don't know what to do anymore, as days go by I have more hatred then love coming from me
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Why do you stay? Your BF
Why do you stay? Your BF wants an easy life, but he doesn't care if you have one. In fact, he's quite happy with you working your a$$ off so that he can live the dream of being a gamer.
And his lack of parenting is a form of child abuse.
Make a plan and get out of there. You're being abused, too.
No offense intended but...
No offense intended but... why are you wasting your life on such ingrates?
Do you work? If so, get out
Do you work? If so, get out of there. If not, get a job and start putting money away.
Your SD is the least of your problems.
Why are you with this guy?
Why are you with this guy? How are you forced to take care of his daughter? She is not your responsibility.
Let Grandma raise the monster
Let Grandma raise the monster she created.
He's your bf not husband so you don't need a lawyer to leave. Crash on a friends couch or pack your stuff and live in your car if you have too. You'll still be happier than in the mess you described.
there are men out there who actually treat women with respect so keep looking
Why do you stay with your
Why do you stay with your boyfriend? You didn't mention one redeeming feature or a single way he enhances your life.
Don't waste your life like
Don't waste your life like this. You are not only being used, but also abused.
He doesn't love you, who treats someone like this if the love them? I am sorry, I do not mean to be harsh... just pointing out the obvious.
Get a job and get out
Im assuming that the reason everything is put on you is because you are not working.
Id get the financial ducks in a row and get out of dodge.
You are wasting your time
You are wasting your time with this man. He is a terrible parent and that will never change. You are being used and taken advantage of.
You have absolutely nothing to gain from this relationship except a life of misery.
You have a full time job ...
You have a full time job ... why are you doing ANYTHING for ANY of them? Don't you think you deserve better? Why are you wasting your life on these worthless individuals?