We have a two week on, two week off summer custody arrangement. The kids will be back from BMs in just a few days for our two weeks. Our first two week rotation was so awful that I am very apprehensive about their return. There were a lot of little things that went on during that time but one sticks out in my head and makes my temperature rise every time I think about it.

It was the second day of our rotation and SD-7 had a ball game. DH had to work so I took her, SD-11 and my BD-15 to the game, DH would come later. As soon as we got to the same SD-11 took off without a word and wouldn't sit with us. When DH arrives she finally comes over. A few minutes later BM arrives. BM was there for 15 minutes or so when she sends another one of her kids(different father) over to us saying "Mommy needs you my SD". My SD left to talk to BM and did not return until the game was over.

Come to find out the next day, BM's sister came with her to the game and brought SD's cousin who use to go to school with my bio-daughter. SD and BM's family spent the entire rest of the game talking crap about my BD...whats worse is that my SD came home afterwards and told my BD everything that was said. THEN BM and the same family members come to my house the next day, unbeknownst to us, when DH and I were at work to talk to SD. SD then tells BM's family that my BD said mean stuff about them! When they leave SD goes back into our house and tells BD that "BM's family really hates her".

As you can imagine my BD was very upset about this not only because she never said anything about SD's family but because SD was talking crap about her. So BD greeted me at the door when I got home from work and told me about it. What do you guys make of this. Im trying to get over my anger about the situation before SD returns but its very hard. I want to be able to forgive and forget about it but its just too hard for me to comprehend!