So....I posted about my SD19 (who is actually my DH's ex-SD from his first marriage) and how she left that huge mess the dog made for me to clean up and had actually taken the time to picture text me a big long message...then left the mess for me to tke care of when I got home from work -- even though she was home all day. You can read the last post about it...

So, anyway. the kid still hasn't contacted me to talk. She's just stayed at her Mom's (even though she lived with us for years) and my DH had said to her that she should fix things with me...but only in words. Otherwise, he's been taking her shopping...hanging out with her behind my back, etc. Is it only me or does that seem like behavior on his part that just lets her continue to act like a brat?

I told him how I felt. And that we are supposed to be a team, not divided like this. He thinks I am unreasonable. However, he seems to forget that she disrespected him as well considering she left our house trashed! Also, does it even matter? What happens to a wife happens to her husband. He should want to teach her to be a respectful person....especially of his wife. I mean really.

I am not being unreasonable by asking him to stop using OUR money and answering her every text about something she WANTS until she apologizes and some time has gone by. At this point, her behavior has been rewarded pretty much.

Headed for divorce court