I have a question that is completely separate from my usual blogs about BM. My DF and I have been dealing with an issue from another of his exes. Before we started dating, he dated another woman. They were together for about four years before he broke it off. The break-up was hard on her. She didn't want to break up but my DF was tired of all the issues. He said it was like having another kid around to take care of. She moved out and started living with someone else. And for almost a year, we have heard nothing from her. Until three weeks ago. It started with messages on oovoo. At first, it was just messages like please talk to me. Then it was messages about how DF owes her money. DF ignored the messages and blocked her. She made a new name. It was obvious that it was her and she wasn't trying to hide it. Then it got weird. She started sending him messages where she began acting like a pirate. I know it sounds weird but she started talking about sailing her ship to our address and plundering his booty. There were even words like matey and argh involved. At first, we laughed about it and blocked her again. But it kept happening. She said she was coming to our house on March 1st. She never showed up, probably because DF did respond to say he would call the cops if she showed up. Now, she is sending him messages about how she is pregnant (with her new boyfriend's child) and wants the two of them to get back together. DF told her no and blocked her again. I am just waiting for the next messages from a new name. Would you ladies consider this harassment? Would you be concerned?