Last night, DF called BM to talk to the girls. They have been having some major behavior problems with SD7. She wouldn't get on the phone. DF starts to talk to BM about the issues and she decides to just sweep them under the rug. "Oh DF, I never have that issue with SD7 at my house." The funny thing is that SD9 was in the room and was in the background saying, "Yes she does mom. Don't lie to dad." DF asked BM to go into a room where SD9 wasn't listening. They continue talking about it and she tells him about the issues with the SDs missing days of school. At the end of the conversation, DF says thanks for telling me what is going on. And BM says, "Well I shouldn't have to tell you. The truth is that you need to give me full custody of the SDs and you can just visit with them when I decide. You are nothing but a visitor in their lives." DF didn't say anything and BM tells him that he never wanted to know anything before now, which is funny because we went back to court to address that issue. She tells him that he did this and he doesn't deserve a say in their lives. Finally, DF says that's enough, BM. I have to go. He hung up. Then, she texted him and told him that he needed to ask her permission to have his quarterly visit with the girls. He texted her back the dates and told her that she can try to stop him from getting them but he will get the police involved since we have a court order.

I told DF that he needs to just stop talking to BM and go straight to the source. We are going to be in their home state next week and he is meeting with both of their teachers and the school principle to discuss the behavior issues and the lice issue. I guess we will see what happens next.