BM actually tried to talk
BM actually tried to talk my DH...into getting back together with her. LOL. They have been apart for over 8 years. We've been married for 2. She said something to him over the phone a few days ago about how they should work it out. He actually started laughing uncontrollably when she said it. He asked her if she was crazy or high. She dropped it and DH and I joked about it.
We thought it was a joke until I got the mail yesterday. Inside the mail was a love letter and a mix CD (no joke). The love letter talked about how it would be best for the SDs if they got back together and she could help him bridge the divide between him and SD12. Lets not forget who caused the divide. She also told him he would make a good stepfather for her other 3 kids. :sick:
DH looked like a deer caught in headlights. He says he has no idea how to navigate this. I told him to just ignore it. Besides, BM is married, so I think this whole thing is a ploy.
We had no kids last night so after dinner, we had a glass of wine and listened to the mix CD. It featured some very awe inspiring songs and some handwritten poetry that she recorded herself reading. We both laughed until our sides were hurting.
But on a serious note, I do wonder what game she is playing. I can't imagine that she is so delusional that she actually believes DH would ever consider this.
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WOW! that's nuts...even if
WOW! that's nuts...even if she were seriously trying to get back together with him, that is a LARGE step to take without her knowing whether he returns the sentiment!
I would be so embarrassed sending recordings of me reading poetry if I didn't know if the other party was interested or not....what a weirdo!
Glad y'all were able to get a good laugh out of it
Oh, heIIs, I'd hand it over
Oh, heIIs, I'd hand it over to her DH right now. No threats, just do.
^^^^This. I'd certainly want
^^^^This.
I'd certainly want to know if my spouse was doing stuff like this.
Me too
Me too
That is so funny! Bet you
That is so funny! Bet you will be laughing about it for years to come. Send a copy of everything to her current husband.
I'll bet she IS that
I'll bet she IS that delusional. Some women (not just BMs) truly believe they are irresistible - doesn't matter if they weigh 300 lbs, don't bathe and have the personality of a banchee.
FYI - before anyone calls me on "fat shaming" - I had a friend who probably weighed close to 300 lbs. Men LOVED her. Seriously she was just a man magnet. She wasn't really beautiful - but she had a flair and a great personality.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^this is exactly
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^this is exactly what I would do.
I would find out where her husband works and send it to him there.
That is just disturbing.
That is just disturbing. Better hope she doesn't start stalking!
oh dear lord that takes the
oh dear lord that takes the cake!
She,must have stopped her
She,must have stopped her meds.
Hope DH has some pepper spray
Hope DH has some pepper spray or a stun gun. He might need some it sounds like. Glad y'all had a good laugh. Sounds like BM is delusional and living in some kind of alternate universe though. Honestly, I would probably send the lovey dovey stuff to her DH with a note explaining that BM must have meant all this crap for him.
a love letter and mix CD?
a love letter and mix CD? LMAO Did she recently dig up a time capsule in her back yard? Did she find a time machine that took her back to 7th grade circa 1989? "Do you like me? Circle one YES NO"
WTF? What a froot loop!
Ha Ha that is what I was
Ha Ha that is what I was thinking...
Hahahahah this made me LOL.
Hahahahah this made me LOL. Sounds like some crap BM would pull. That's just insane.
I thought the same thing
I thought the same thing about your BM.
Are you telling me none of
Are you telling me none of you send cd's and poems to your ex when remarried
I am so disappointed in all of you.
Jabba asked to reconcile with my husband while falling on her now new husbands penii. Promised all sorts of changes and undying love. Really, you ladies are so out the loop of acceptable ex wife behavior
I would rather poke myself in
I would rather poke myself in the eyes with red hot pokers than attempt to reconcile with my ex!
You or DH need to call BM and
You or DH need to call BM and tell her that yes...she is going to help SD and DH get back on track and that yes...BM will stop trying to do the same crap to YSD. If she continues to PAS the kids against DH, the letter and all will be taken straight to HER dh.
She's crazy. I'd call her
She's crazy. I'd call her husband & tell him what is going on, you have evidence.
She's crazy. I'd call her
She's crazy. I'd call her husband & tell him what is going on, you have evidence.
Oh wow. She's obviously
Oh wow. She's obviously really unhappy and grasping at strings in an attempt to find happiness. I would encourage your husband to call her (on speaker phone so you can hear the convo too) and tell her that this isn't ever going to happen. That he wants their relationship to be cordial for the children but that's as far as it will ever go. I wouldn't send an email to an obviously not all there woman. People like her save stuff like that as ammunition and she may show it to the kids to say "See, I tried to fix things with daddy and he doesn't want us to be a family." I'm not sure about sharing the info with current husband. I would want to know but it's a tough call to get yourself involved in another persons marriage. I'd just stay out of their mess and focus on your own marriage and family.
BM2 just sent DH a thing
BM2 just sent DH a thing yesterday about how she loves all of her family friends, they are all in her heart and on her mind. :sick:
Pitch, blease. You cheated and dumped him faster than a hot potato and now regret it because the "greener" (read: more money) pastures won't share the money or put a ring on it.
Bye Felicia!
Agree!
Agree!
Yes, THIS!!! AND the poem!
Yes, THIS!!! AND the poem!
Well, I'm feeling petty and
Well, I'm feeling petty and cranky and angry today.
I would want to call her and say I know all your secrets. DH told me everything that happened in your marriage, the time you did this and the time you said that and I even know why you include that song on your silly CD. He's with me now and we made some new memories to the songs on that CD. }:)
I like Willow's suggestion.
I like Willow's suggestion. Use this as leverage to keep her in line.
She's married? Send it to
She's married? Send it to her DH (at his office so she can't intercept...or, better yet, HAND IT TO HIM) and tell him, "thought your attorney might be interested in this, good luck"